Japanese women love foreign men because Japanese men live for their work and not their family. Also, they are likely to have affairs. This is not true of all of them, but true enough to make a gaijin like me very popular.
My wife never dated a Japanese man because of what she saw even though her father wasn't this way.
If I were you, I'd look for a Jguy that has lived overseas. They are much more open minded and try not to seem too bossy like most American women I know.
