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Graduation Gift Ideas?
My old professor's granddaughter (American) is graduating from college soon and I'm thinking of sending her a graduation gift from Tokyo. I haven't even met her in person before but we have been corresponding with each other as she is deeply interested in Japanese culture. We have also been exchanging small gifts.
On this occasion, I would like to send her something better than Pocky's and kanji tee-shirts. However, I've already come to a deadlock. I have no idea what would please a young American lady. I'm thinking of spending 10,000 - 20,000 yen, shipping excluded. What would you like to receive from a Japanese uncle figure? Would it be okay if I actually asked her? Any suggestions will be appreciated. |
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American gift culture and Japanese gift culture are very different. There are regional differences, of course, as well as familial ones... but if a man I didn't know spent that much on me for college graduation, I would feel very indebted. I think the only person that bought me a graduation present was my dad. Other than that, it is not expected, I think. Especially from a non-family member. So whatever you choose will be more than most people give her. |
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I'm not even known as an incredibly generous gift-giver over here, but I guess I would look like one over there. Making her feel indebted is the last thing I want to do. I was getting ready to go and look in Takashimaya or Isetan, but now I'll probably opt to check Don Quijote first. :rolleyes: |
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I have been to a couple weddings in Japan in the last few years, (and am anticipating a couple more) and for me the sheer volume of gift giving is brutal. I understand the meaning of 結婚貧乏 (is that the right term?) I have hosted several exchange trips between high school-age students and elementary school-age students to Japan. Usually the Japanese kids would come in winter, then we would go visit in summer. Without fail the host parents in Japan would spend hundreds of dollars on gifts for the students and their families even though the American families sent comparatively paltry gifts with the Japanese students home. This often led to desperate phone calls to me: "They bought my son a Nintendo DS and all we gave them was a block of cheese. What do we do?!?" |
I would like to interject and say I too agree with the lower cash amount. Right now the only people I feel it is appropriate to spend 20,000-30,000 on is my parents and my girlfriend. 5000-10,000 would be more than generous of you. But of course like MMM said you be the judge. Considering it is for college graduation it may in fact be ok, depending upon your relationship with her and her grandfather.
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This is always a tough task for guys :D and you guys never really know what we ladies want! LOL (just joking)
Since that young lady is greatly interested in Japanese culture, how about some Japanese handcrafted / Japanese style accessory (necklace, bracelet, earrings, brooch... etc)? |
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The term you are probably looking for is ご祝儀貧乏, meaning spending so much cash for weddings and funerals. Quote:
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Hm, maybe alot of different anime and manga to read? To get into it . . .
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Oh . . .I thought of that, I guess I thought there would be some subbed anime there for tourists XD
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Also keep in mind DVDs from Japan will not work in American players or players anywhere outside of Region 2 without a region-free player. When thinking of graduation gifts, a basket of anime and manga is probably not the first thing to come to most Japanese people's minds. |
Since she is interested in Japanese culture why not get her a pretty poster of Japan or a kimono? xD
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A taiyaki-ki? Gives her a new Japanese food to try?
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If it's a graduation gift, it should be something that will last. After all the point of the gift is to celebrate her finishing her school career and she's only ever going to have one graduation.
Japan does some exceptionally beautiful glass like this: http://www.beadingtimes.com/artist03...ira34-1big.jpg which you can get in pendants in the price range you're talking about. I found it in a lot of shops in Kobe and in....shiga(?) prefecture where I went to a glass factory. I'd be surprised if you couldn't find it in Tokyo. It would also ship easily. Otherwise something she could take on with her when she moves out of home for good/starts working full-time. Maybe a high-end print if she likes art, or a really good chef's knife if she likes cooking. My sister got a lamp for her graduation. Lacquer ware is hardy to ship and beautiful. A little box or plate or something might make a good gift as it can be both decorative and practical. Or you could get something connected to her studies; my cousins studied medicine and architecture respectively; one got a custom stethoscope (sparkly and pink. she works in pediatrics now and the kids love it) and the other got a set of drafting tools with his name on them. I got a set of sushi plates and a dictionary. |
how do you call japanese phones? keitai? is that it, i've seen a lot of nice keitai's and some of them are unlocked which means you can use the phone with your local sim. i think that would be a nice idea. what do you think. speaking of keitais can you give me online sites where i can order jap phones, sites that are accepting international shipping, aside from rakuten can you name some more.
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