How do you deal with heartbreaks?
 

I got to know an Arab girl over a week ago. I liked her very much and told hr that everyday. Two days ago she stopped answering me on facebook, and now we split. I feel so heartbroken I really don't wanna do anything besides lying in bed and feel sorry for myself....

what to do?

Kill yourself!

The Arab girls relatives will prolly do that anyway.

The things wasn't going fast?!

You meet a girl a week ago and feel bad because you don't chat by 2 days? OMG! I think someone overestimated the relationship.

What you have to do?
Man, you really have to go out and meet people. Exists life outside internet! Don't overestimate a relationship with a person that you met only a week ago, it's only reflection of your solitude. Visit a psychologist might be an option.

I don't think that will help Sit much, his happy meal just came with the toy.

Hmm...maybe that's why she started ignoring me. I sent her heart emoticons, and talked about finding her a job in my country and stuff. But I really loved here. Even if we only knew each other for 7-8 days, sometimes there's love at first sight.

first sight? When you never saw personally the person(it sounds really funny!). I think the cupid only shot you hahahaha. It was not love at first sight, it was only someone giving atention to a very solitary guy, I think you confused the situation.

Man, it's not a movie, it's the real life. If you get hurt, you'll have a lot of pain, with your kind of personality is better you stay prapared to some hurts.

maybe she saw your posts on here and left you

she didn't know you existed until she left you, and that means she told you to stop stalking her after she found out you were doing it

none of this can be taken seriously in anyway

I side with Aniki on this.

You sound incredibly desperate. Look how long it took you to scare this girl off. No one talks about moving to live with a stranger after a matter of a few days. Calm down. Take your time. Don't rush anything.

You are either a really good troll. Meaning you know how to troll, but not to make it so obvious that you are immediately banned. Or you are do not understand people or relationships very well, and should try to make real friends with people, or possibly get some counseling. If you do not want to pay for a hooker at least pay for counseling so you can learn to have a healthy relationship with a woman/people on your own.

But about the girl. Umm yeah moving a little to fast, and expecting a little too much. Girls don't go for desperate guys. (Hell, I have usually had the same reaction to desperate girls). The harder you push in the beginning the more you push them away. I am talking about being creepy, with stuff like emoticons and love messages, when the girl barely knows what she thinks about you, (I am not talking about trying to hit on a girl and get her phone number or something at a bar, thats fine just don't creep out on her afterwards).

And you deal with the heartbreak by realizing that you are overreacting and there are tons of girls out there and its not like you have blown your only chance and your life is over.

What should I talk to her, or any other girl about then? It's just that I liked her a lot and I have never had a relationship before, so I started dreaming about us...

you are still dreaming because it wasn't a fucking relationship.


btw...so, mods. are we going to read every day Stiron's "my life sucks, i suck" diary? which is made up probably...?
it's cool that people give advice (specially to kill himself) but it's annoying since it is never heard or even needed if he is a troll. sad to see people's efforts go to waste...

dude just ask her about what she likes.. or if you want sound smart, talk to her about the crisis happening in Egypt right now. and what she thinks should happen.. just avoid.. stuff like.. "would you like to touch my penis" and "I am a sex machine". okay?

I highly recommend to listen to this advice, unless you meet her at a porn or sex addicted convention, but even there I don't know for sure it will get you more than a smack ...

We turned friends again, and she let me back to her facebook. But the thing is I see several pictures on her facebook with comments from guys saying she's so pretty. And on one of the pictures from november a guy tells her he loves her, and she comments I love you back.

Should I be suspicious? Because she told me she had had no boyfriends before, and that she is not used to get called pretty by guys. That I am the only one she hears it from.

I think she may be a gold digger looking for a visa to europe.

She's pretty, she has a lot of friends, it's normal for people to comment on how attractive she is. It's also normal for friends (mainly girls) to say 'I love you' to one another, most I know would say it to their friends, or even say it jokingly back to a guy if he said it to them in that kind of context . . .

With all due respect, if you're not a troll you sound like you have zero self-esteem, paranoia, a hatred of women, and a very superficial personality. If you can't trust this girl then I would say don't try to start a relationship with her, and especially not after one week, it's not just "desperate" as someone else said, but obssessive and rather creepy. Please, get therapy and/or get out into the real world. Meet people in real life. You need to get out more. . .

Awww don't kill yourself! Your posts are far too entertaining :0

You don't understand - she told me she had never had a boyfriend before, yet she says "I love you to a guy" after he tells her I love you, even though this was back in november.

She tells me, nobody ever calls her pretty, yet her pictures are full of comments BY GUYS about how pretty she looks. She's also from a poorer country.

Facebook is the internet . . . people comment, they say things, they may or may not mean the things they say. If people told me I was pretty/ugly/gorgeous/hideous on Facebook I wouldn't pay much attention, or at least not the same way I would in real life, because real life is what matters. On the internet it's a bunch of strangers talking through a keybaord - maybe she doesn't count that as a real compliment, maybe in real life no one has ever told her she's pretty?

I occasionally get complimented online, never in real life. Should I go around declaring my awesome sexiness? No. Because the internet is not real life, it doesn't count as squat.

As for the "boyfriend"? How do you know he isn't a brother, friend, colleague or even a random stranger that she's just joking back with, like 'haha, sure, I love you too'? Seriously - you seem very paranoid and quick to judge. In a relationship you need trust, and if you can't trust this girl then why do you even want to talk to her or be with her?

Because she's the only girl that talks to me romantically.

And now she said goodbye I have to log off, or she did that 3 minutes ago and she still hasn't.

(At 23.53 Pm she said goodbye, 5 minutes later she's still logged on facebook).

Ah, great, now I totally get your logic . . .

"Oh, hey, no one likes me . . . but that total psycho over there likes me, even if its just to get a visa or sell my kidneys on Ebay, but meh, what the hell, right? Marry me, babe!"

hahahaha

I said before that she was only a person giving some atention to a lonely guy. Some people like he tend to confuse things when they get some atention.

I vote for the psychologist again, I'm not joking.

What kind of logic is that?

You need to stop being so pathetic. You honestly wonder why you don't get more attention from women?

Relationships and love do not happen overnight, especially when it is only through the internet. You need to calm down and be patient. Develop a real relationship with a girl. Get her to truly be interested in you.

This girl just sounds like a tease, that likes getting attention, and you are the perfect sucker to give it to her.

Keep looking and stop talking like an asshole and I am sure you will find someone. Also, stop judging solely on looks. Most people go after someone who is "in their league" let's say. According to how you describe yourself, I think you are setting the bar too high. Looks are not everything and most people do not land the supermodels.

I am the proud owner of a heart that's never been broken, so I wouldn't know. :cool:

I guess this pain you feel passes over time. Plus it's a girl you never really got to know on the inside, you can't have fallen for her fully, I wouldn't say that feeling you experienced was anywhere close to true love, so cheer up, you'll be fine.

I like you.