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On the tv show Japanorama (youtube) Jonathan Ross states there are cafe's/bars in Japan where women who don't feel confident talking to men, can go and have dinner with women dressed as men to build up their confidence and social skills. All those "men" had drawn on facial hair so it can't be that bad?
If you think about it, business men in western culture get frowned upon for not having a shave. My boss gives me dirty looks if i have a bit of stubble! Saying that, if i dont shave for more than 2 days I become a monkey.. I'm working on the source for my first paragraph, ill edit it in here later. |
well I have a beard, if they don't like it... they can do 1. Cos it's not going anywhere.
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Obviously it does come down to personal preference... But I would say the view of a beard as "dirty" is true. That doesn`t necessarily mean it`s a bad thing, as some people prefer "dirty". But it doesn`t make you look like you`re successful, as companies tend not to like facial hair.
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i tend to rock the homeless look alot, i dont intend on changing anytime soon untill ppl either A) run away screaming or B)start throwing change at my feet :p
its down to personal preference EVERYWHERE, girls(& guys) are all diferent, sure "companies" might not like it but thats a whole different story Quote:
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Perhaps it's acceptable on western men but being of Japanese descent, I definitely made sure I was clean shaven before I stepped outside. |
It doesn't really matter many people in Okinawa old & young adults had facial hair, and they we respected. Although some do think of at as dirty. I didnt.
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Does this apply to Japanese males only, or foreign people as well? Am I expected to shave my beard, not to be looked down upon in a restaurant, or it matters only when doing business, as Nyoro pointed out?
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This is something i had always heard but never got confirmation on so i find this interesting. One of the many differences in the western and eastern culture. God i dont know what i would do if i had to shave completely. I dont have a beard or mustache or anything just a little but when its all shaved off i look like im twelve years old.
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Same thing with one of my east asian friends(Indian). When he doesn't shave he looks like he is about 25. When he doesn't, he looks about 15.
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That sounds like my kind of people. "Dude, ride the waves man, you just gotta listen to mother ocean." Bust out a little ukulele and take a nap in my hammock.
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It does come across as "dirty" becomes it doesn't look very well kept. Really, it does remain a personal preference, and it's the same in every country. |
It looks like I have found a place to go to when I visit Japan :).
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I always perceived in general that Japanese women preferred men without facial hair. I dunno, from my experience with foreign exchange students from Japan, that seems to be the "normal" consensus.
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Why do i find this topic hilarious?
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Dating tips of course.
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