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I *completely* agree with what he said - although his wording choice was poor. Then again, I think older people would have had another fit if he`d used the medical term to refer to wombs, being as it was taboo in the generation he comes from. The actual quote, by the way, is 「機械と呼ぶのは何だけど、産む機械、装置の数は決ま っているから、あとは一人ずつベストを尽くしてもらう ようにお願いするしかない」 Nowhere in that do I see him directly equating women with machines. He is referring to the actual body parts, not the whole. ETA; He apologized many times, and I am quite happy to believe his explanation - not all women can bear children, so saying "women" would not have fit... But saying "fertile and willing wombs" is taboo... So he said the best he could come up with on the spot. |
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Most Japanese guys don't get Married untill they are in thier 30's, and they usually find girls in thier early 20's. Japan still has arranged Marriages to this day, but very rare now. |
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However, American women have to deal with the men from Japanese corporations and that can get tense. We sometimes encounter a dismissive attitude even when on our own turf because of the lingering sentiments that have been mentioned here, and that some Japanese businessmen expect from all women. Its a rather unpleasant hurdle for those of us who have a career because we want one, rather than being forced by circumstance to have one. So far, I have always managed to clear that hurdle, but it is still starts of a business relationship with my being subtley insulted. I do not, however, go and tell them to correct this in their businesses. I think it is far better to teach them by example, that they should reconsider how they view women in the workplace. By seeing that some business women do not simply mark time waiting to become a housewife, they are more likely to gradually and permanently change their attitudes, than if it is thrust upon them. And it seems to be working, because I meet fewer of those types these days. |
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if Japanese women still look young after that age why do japanese men not want to have alot to do with them? is it because younger girls are entering there "prime"? it must be a cultural thing again yes? for me its just weird to hear even if a woman looks good.. at 26 - 32 its just .. well shes not 20 so she wont do.. >< :) thx for the replies.. i should get into Sex and Relationship Therapy.. i could listen all day.. haha.. kinda weird |
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Its because of the percieved role of women to marry and produce families that in the U.S. one is no longer allowed to inquire about marital status on a job application. Because American men did not abandon careers to have children, only women, it is considered sexual discrimination to allow a woman's marital status to have any consideration in employment. And because you can't use it for or against women, you can't for men either. However, we both know that it in fact happens, even though it is not on paper. |
I recall his speech being that no matter how hard men in the government may sit around talking about how the population should increase, and coming up with grand schemes... It all comes down to women - There is a limited number of women, and in that population there is a limited number of "baby producing units" ie. functional wombs with willing owners - so it is best we can do is to ask them to do their best for the population.
In other words, instead of old men sitting around trading theories, why not ask those who really do have the power to increase the population to do their best. If you ignore his wording, I think what he said is very accurate, and is in fact empowering to women as he refers to them as the ones with the power, and refers to asking/begging them to do their best. |
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I remember teaching a class of obasans (this was 18 years ago) and explaining how women in my country had fought for the right to be salarymen. They all looked at each other and said, "why on earth would they want that?" |
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uhm. I go next month to Tokyo x) ehm... wel... oO .... the tread °° ... is very helpfull x)
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