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aoshisakura 06-15-2009 07:48 AM

friends
 
i just want to start a thread regarding friendships,, i wanna learn more on handling friendship issues and to find new friend at the same time,,:pinkart:

how would you describe your ideal friend? :marusmile:

TenmaAi 06-15-2009 12:50 PM

Some one with the same hobbies and interests as me. Some one who will stick up and comfort you and all that when you need it. Some one who is available 27/7 for you if something happend and you would trust 100% xD I guess that what a friend would be like in my opinion

darksyndrem 06-15-2009 02:01 PM

Yeah~Pretty sure this doesn't belong in the General Discussion....?

ANyways, my ideal friend sounds a little like Fortnight's...............how did I mess that up O_O

KitsuneFr 06-15-2009 08:54 PM

Someone you would feel quiet and peaceful with.
Someone you would take care about (and you know that he/she would take care of you)
Someone you could talk about anything a night long, without sleeping, just talking and joking and laughing
Someone that you would remember all your life, even if you lost contact due to geographical moving, or you finding a family, or so many things that are making you loosing or neglecting friends (so sad :( )
Someone who counts for you, someone maybe you'll regret to have lost,
But in every case someone you have made happy before he/she made you happy :vsign:

So good night now :ywave:

YukisUke 06-16-2009 12:26 AM

I say an ideal friend is someone that you can atc crazy with, someone who's always there for you, someone you can depend on morning, noon, and night. Someone who isn't afraid to say: "I got your back."

Pike 06-16-2009 12:45 AM

A true friend is someone that is loyal to you. Someone you can trust with your life completely.

Quailboy 06-16-2009 05:16 AM

I think..a true friend is somebody that will always be there for you, through the good and the bad. If they start to fall apart during the bad..theres something they need to work not..they need to be able to take a joke if there going to hang out with me. Someone very open.

YukisUke 06-16-2009 07:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Quailboy (Post 734517)
I think..a true friend is somebody that will always be there for you, through the good and the bad. If they start to fall apart during the bad..theres something they need to work not..they need to be able to take a joke if there going to hang out with me. Someone very open.

I second that opinion.

aoshisakura 06-17-2009 02:58 AM

thankyou
 
tEnmAai

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thAnkyOu sOo mUch!!

do you think it would be possible to find that ideal friend?


YukisUke 06-17-2009 04:54 PM

In time, you'll find just the friend you're looking for. I'm sure you will. :D

KitsuneFr 06-17-2009 05:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aoshisakura (Post 734889)
tEnmAai




do you think it would be possible to find that ideal friend?

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It could take a very very long time sometimes, but you should never loose hope. Now take care of you and most important, take care of your true friend you are seaching for when you'll find him/her!

aoshisakura 06-18-2009 02:43 AM

whEeE! thAnkyOu.. :pompoms:
anothEr thing. . what if you have this two very special friendz that you've treated just as your real family,,:pinkart: you've been so attatched to them..
but the time came that these two got badly inlove with each other
and you felt used,,:crykitty: will you stay away from them or
will you just ignore your negative feelings and stay with them??:confused:
you've found new friendz that never let you down and protected
you from those who are trying to hurt you,, yet you're still
longing for those two that you've treated as your family for so long.. :pinkcry:

KitsuneFr 06-18-2009 10:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aoshisakura (Post 735337)
whEeE! thAnkyOu.. :pompoms:
anothEr thing. . what if you have this two very special friendz that you've treated just as your real family,,:pinkart: you've been so attatched to them..
but the time came that these two got badly inlove with each other
and you felt used,,:crykitty: will you stay away from them or
will you just ignore your negative feelings and stay with them??:confused:
you've found new friendz that never let you down and protected
you from those who are trying to hurt you,, yet you're still
longing for those two that you've treated as your family for so long.. :pinkcry:

Well, a very hard question to answer...
If they really are trying to hurt you, well, I believe that friendship with them shouldn't continue anymore... But if (and it can be, that is the way that we sometimes react) it's only the case that it is you only who believe to be hurt, just only because you are feeling sad, disappointed or so (I mean that THEY are not intending to hurt you), well, give them a chance. It is hard, but it is harder to really loose friends, OK? Sorry about my poor english, I may not really express what I would mean :o . But take care and cheer up if it's the case!

aoshisakura 06-21-2009 07:20 AM

thank you sooo much!!!

mizuki9san 06-21-2009 07:22 AM

wheeeeeeee....come and join in...:)

thcuteness 06-21-2009 01:40 PM

My ideal friend, or at least one of my current best friends, is the one who scarely know what i thinking, finishes my sentences, shares the same hobbies, and just love being around me. but were not to alike so we dont bore eachother, and we always have fun.

aoshisakura 06-22-2009 03:31 AM

thanx everyone!! for the help and for sharing,, has anyone here already found their hyper true friend??:pinksong: just wondering. . whee thanks for expressing what you feel bout my situation,, thankyou sooo much!!

Kawatta 06-22-2009 03:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aoshisakura (Post 736912)
, has anyone here already found their hyper true friend??:pinksong: just wondering.

Id have to say im pretty close, my small group of friends are my "real" friends, i feel the most comfortable with them, we party, blast the same music, make fun of each other without anyone getting over sensative, and we all know that if things go down( bar fights,..whatever) we have each others backs. Also for things like advice they are olmost better than parents.

Kozyra 06-25-2009 11:25 AM

personality, if the person is friendly,polite and especially like the poor people in all the word...i choose him/her :vsign:

aoshisakura 06-30-2009 08:50 AM

thankyou!! :pinkart: i want everyone to know how
much i want to find someone i can take care of..
and i'll never stop till i found that friend destined for me..:pinksong:
thanks for sharing what you think about friends and stuffs like that..
i hope we can continue sharing different friendship matters in this little thread..
because it's really a great help to me..
i hope i could return the favor to you guys.. :pinkart:

Kozyra 06-30-2009 05:25 PM

you must first to use all your power to have a friend..be that your mean issue..then asking God about that and research for an ideal friend......then all thing well coming naturally....
i hope from God to have an ideal friend...

aoshisakura 07-01-2009 12:35 AM

yeah.. now i've been a lot more positive regarding this thatn before.. :pinkart:

downtoearth 07-07-2009 03:39 AM

I just joined and i think you put it beautifully

aoshisakura 07-07-2009 07:04 AM

whee.. let's all be friends... can we???

odjiro 07-07-2009 08:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aoshisakura (Post 742542)
whee.. let's all be friends... can we???

sure..
^^

KitsuneFr 07-07-2009 09:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aoshisakura (Post 742542)
whee.. let's all be friends... can we???

Well, Ok, if you wanna ^^
I'm still hoping that we could have all helped you anyway :)
So good night ! (here it is close to midnight)

Natts 07-09-2009 11:34 AM

I have two wonderful friends, we have been best friends since kindergarten :) But when we went to high school, they started to spend more time with just the two of them. It started when I moved to the city, about 7 miles away from them, so we didn´t spend much time together anymore. We all have the same hobbies: drawing and scouting. And when it comes to scouting, they have become more lazy. This summer I had to go leading a camp all alone, because they didn´t want to come.
But, even if we aren´t SO close friends, we still get along and hang out sometimes. We have this big group of friends, and I have found someone who is like a missing part of me :) I met her in the first year of high school and we share all the same interests, ideas and point of views. It´s wonderful to just sit and talk hours with someone. It´s like our minds are linked. We almost finish eachothers sentences xD

So, even if your friendships may die sometimes, there´s always a new one waiting just around the corner, if you are ready for it :)

aoshisakura 07-24-2009 08:19 AM

thank you everyone!!! let's all share our friendship stories..
sad or happy,, embarassing or what ever.. we can all discuss it here.. ne?
you guys sure helpd me a lot..
knowing you all spnt a little of your time
reading someone elses problem.. hehee..
mwah!!

watercan 07-24-2009 04:45 PM

there is not ideal friends but real friends !!
a real friend will be always by your side share your happynes and your sadnes , the one that will be in your side to help you and to listen to your problems without thinking his own good and try to take advantage from you!!
a real friend doesnt have to be the same like you!!
it have to have some interes the same like you and a real friend isnt easy to find but when you find him you will know it!!!

aoshisakura 08-01-2009 05:17 AM

yeah! i think it's wonderful to
have real friends.. anyone here know about
sanzo and goku's friendship?


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