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Gameslayer22 09-07-2008 04:28 AM

True stuff
 
why do you girl go after the jock " good looking" guys,that you know will be a big jerk,only love you until he has seen enough of you,and will make you cry,but leave the sweet quit guys that would probably love you with 100% of his heart to pick up the pieces of his heart that you girls broke?

CarleyGee 09-07-2008 04:40 AM

It's not just girls that are like that.
what about the guys that go after the cheerleaders?
Whatever your answer is to this question, it will be the same as the other.

Nyororin 09-07-2008 07:34 AM

If the girl is the type who is unable to see that reality, and would choose a jock over a decent guy - she`s probably not really worth being with in the end...

Which comes to another question; why do guys (not of the jock variety) go after the type of girl who will never treat them well? Why do they go after the girls who are going after the jocks, when there are usually plenty of other decent girls around them?

It all goes both ways.
I can`t tell you how many times I`ve seen sweet guys chasing after airheads while totally ignoring the girls around who are like them and likely to actually care about them.

KikiBunny23 09-07-2008 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by CarleyGee (Post 577892)
what about the guys that go after the cheerleaders?

No offence but this kinda made me mad cus I am a cheerleader and not a lot of places are exactly like that anymore. I don't even associate with guys at my school...except for my guy friends.
Now its more, if you're in the clique you date whoever you want, if your not...then you don't get the time of day.

Me, personally, I don't really care about looks, but more personality though lately I've just pretty much forgotten about guys all together cus their to confusing for me. (To many people sayin they like me and crap and to many of my guy friends askin for advice on girls) so yea...

CarleyGee 09-07-2008 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by KikiBunny23 (Post 577959)
No offence but this kinda made me mad cus I am a cheerleader and not a lot of places are exactly like that anymore. I don't even associate with guys at my school...except for my guy friends.
Now its more, if you're in the clique you date whoever you want, if your not...then you don't get the time of day.

Me, personally, I don't really care about looks, but more personality though lately I've just pretty much forgotten about guys all together cus their to confusing for me. (To many people sayin they like me and crap and to many of my guy friends askin for advice on girls) so yea...

Sorry!
That was just the first thing that came to mine ^_^
but he used a cliche, so I did as well. (well not really a cliche, but when he said jock... lol)
No intentions of upsetting anyone.

Well it's not always a cliche, it's mostly like that at my school anyway.
It's different everywhere.

Gameslayer22 09-07-2008 04:32 PM

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i understand what all of you are saying but this actually happened to me,i was really pissed of because she was of my social group and i was trying to go with her but she went out with the jock kid wich was my friend.and at the end he realized he was not best for her and he dump her, now she has had one bad relationships after another,and is out looking for a guy that she thinks is good for her but did not even take me ito consideration.

Bureda 09-07-2008 04:43 PM

This thread is stupid.

First off: just because you cannot tap some ass it does not mean you can generalise every female out there.

Every female is a human being and therefore thinks and acts how she sees fit. This world has gold diggers, beauty hunters, geeks, quiet girls, innocent girls and a whole load of other personalities we do not know about.

Why are they like that? The answer is simple, it because they were raised in that environment.

Lets have Gameslayer22 copy one and raise him in a poor environment and then lets have Gameslayer22 copy two raised in the opposite environment, if you witness their development you may realise that their identities may not be the same. They conceive reality in a different perspective due to their experiences.

Seriously, like, wow, how simply minded can you get.

You might as well come out of the closet and say "Hey, man, I want to be in some reality TV show where I get to bang all the females I can". If FlavaFlav can get some ass you sure as hell can.

Let's leave it at that, but seriously, once again do your homework, make sure you're up to date with the basic understanding of human nature, because you wont be able to keep your girl happy if you aren't.

Thunda 09-07-2008 05:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tenchu (Post 577910)
And if you try hard enough then you can have anything you want, in time.

People should learn to read between the lines.

Gameslayer22 09-07-2008 06:47 PM

hm
 
you may have a point their

KikiBunny23 09-07-2008 07:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CarleyGee (Post 577962)
Sorry!
That was just the first thing that came to mine ^_^
but he used a cliche, so I did as well. (well not really a cliche, but when he said jock... lol)
No intentions of upsetting anyone.

Well it's not always a cliche, it's mostly like that at my school anyway.
It's different everywhere.

It's k, I understand.

The only thing I hate is when guys ignore my friend once they find out she likes them. She's really pretty and sweet and guys hang around her all the time. But it's like with Tyler or Carter, once they found out she liked them, they dodged her at all costs. But then Tyler sent a text to her askin what she would do if he kissed her. Then he avoided answering what he meant by it.

Why are guys like that? It never happens to me. They're just like, sorry but no. [the only time my crushes find out I like them is when someone tells them] But still...

CarleyGee 09-07-2008 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by KikiBunny23 (Post 578293)
It's k, I understand.

The only thing I hate is when guys ignore my friend once they find out she likes them. She's really pretty and sweet and guys hang around her all the time. But it's like with Tyler or Carter, once they found out she liked them, they dodged her at all costs. But then Tyler sent a text to her askin what she would do if he kissed her. Then he avoided answering what he meant by it.

Why are guys like that? It never happens to me. They're just like, sorry but no. [the only time my crushes find out I like them is when someone tells them] But still...

I've seen that happen a lot of times.
I still don't understand it ^_^
But of course, lots of boys are a tad immature for quite a long time.
Tyler might like her . . . maybe he's just shy and that's why he's avoiding her, even if they've hung out a lot.

(P.S : lol, i was a cheerleader once ^-^ )

KikiBunny23 09-07-2008 07:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CarleyGee (Post 578299)
I've seen that happen a lot of times.
I still don't understand it ^_^
But of course, lots of boys are a tad immature for quite a long time.
Tyler might like her . . . maybe he's just shy and that's why he's avoiding her, even if they've hung out a lot.

(P.S : lol, i was a cheerleader once ^-^ )

well, he knows she likes him but he said he only loves her like a sis then the next time he came over to my house, [he comes over whenever she is here to swim] after he had left, he sent that text.
but he supposedly has a girlfriend in another school yet hangs around his ex a lot. hugging, holding hands and the sort. he even said he loved her over the phone *cries*
but now laura said she officially hates him cus he's always sendin mixed signals

MissMisa 09-07-2008 07:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CarleyGee (Post 578299)

(P.S : lol, i was a cheerleader once ^-^ )

Lol, I used to be! Wow, that was such a long time ago. [Offtopicness]

CarleyGee 09-07-2008 07:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KikiBunny23 (Post 578311)
well, he knows she likes him but he said he only loves her like a sis then the next time he came over to my house, [he comes over whenever she is here to swim] after he had left, he sent that text.
but he supposedly has a girlfriend in another school yet hangs around his ex a lot. hugging, holding hands and the sort. he even said he loved her over the phone *cries*
but now laura said she officially hates him cus he's always sendin mixed signals

Ha, it looks like this dude is very confused. ^_^
It's best not to want to get involved with him juuuuussttt yet.
That's happened to one of my friends before, it was a complete
mess. So I think Laura is doing the right thing. Those kinds
of situations can only get worse, and they're soooooo
confusing... ^_^

Quote:

Originally Posted by MissMisa (Post 578317)
Lol, I used to be! Wow, that was such a long time ago. [Offtopicness]

I hate to say it, but when I actually caused the whole squad to quit. V_V
Haha, I was really peaved with the new rules that were completely
ridiculous, so we went up to the principal, they refused to change it.
Sooooooo. i was like "well I'm quitting, this sucks, etc. you should too to
prove a point." We never had a squad again. (i graduated from there
so it's official) ^_^

KikiBunny23 09-07-2008 08:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CarleyGee (Post 578331)
Ha, it looks like this dude is very confused. ^_^
It's best not to want to get involved with him juuuuussttt yet.
That's happened to one of my friends before, it was a complete
mess. So I think Laura is doing the right thing. Those kinds
of situations can only get worse, and they're soooooo
confusing... ^_^

Actually, Tyler has been goin through some rough times...pretty much like I have. I know Laura still likes him but she just won't admit it. Cus she gets this look whenever she sees him. But me, guys confuse me way to much...but all my friends agree that I'm gonna be single til I get to college, I'm gonna run into some random dude being my clumsy self and we flal in love. Haha, I don't believe them but who knows with me

Thunda 09-07-2008 08:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gameslayer22 (Post 578206)
you may have a point their

Question is; what do you want to achieve. Do you want to become a hot guy and enter the devils circle? You will be no different. You could find the good sides of being deviant. Just make sure you are looking at the right place, and show your best side to those who appreciate it.

Salvanas 09-07-2008 09:26 PM

This thread is just a very badly concealed rant about how you like a girl, yet she doesn't like you and goes for other boys.

Seriously, just because you might give her "100% love", that doesn't mean she wants to go out with you. I learned that when I was 10.

Did you ever think that it was your looks? Maybe how you whine in almost every post? Maybe how you feel sorry for yourself all the time?

Seriously, no woman wants a whiney man. Go out there, look at what some other boys are doing to catch the girls, then just try and use some of those tactics.

OR try this. Perhaps its what you wear? Perhaps it what you look like? Perhaps you're overweight?

So many things that could be deterring you. From your looks to your personality. The people that say "Don't change yourself for other people" have different views on this, but heres my view.

Change yourself only to the point where you have accomplished your task. Don't over do it, and still be yourself. And lastly, don't be clingy.

Uriko 09-07-2008 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Salvanas (Post 578444)
This thread is just a very badly concealed rant about how you like a girl, yet she doesn't like you and goes for other boys.

Seriously, just because you might give her "100% love", that doesn't mean she wants to go out with you. I learned that when I was 10.

Did you ever think that it was your looks? Maybe how you whine in almost every post? Maybe how you feel sorry for yourself all the time?

Seriously, no woman wants a whiney man. Go out there, look at what some other boys are doing to catch the girls, then just try and use some of those tactics.

OR try this. Perhaps its what you wear? Perhaps it what you look like? Perhaps you're overweight?

So many things that could be deterring you. From your looks to your personality. The people that say "Don't change yourself for other people" have different views on this, but heres my view.

Change yourself only to the point where you have accomplished your task. Don't over do it, and still be yourself. And lastly, don't be clingy.

Amen. *bow*

Fooflowers 09-08-2008 02:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Salvanas (Post 578444)
This thread is just a very badly concealed rant about how you like a girl, yet she doesn't like you and goes for other boys.

Seriously, just because you might give her "100% love", that doesn't mean she wants to go out with you. I learned that when I was 10.

Did you ever think that it was your looks? Maybe how you whine in almost every post? Maybe how you feel sorry for yourself all the time?

Seriously, no woman wants a whiney man. Go out there, look at what some other boys are doing to catch the girls, then just try and use some of those tactics.

OR try this. Perhaps its what you wear? Perhaps it what you look like? Perhaps you're overweight?

So many things that could be deterring you. From your looks to your personality. The people that say "Don't change yourself for other people" have different views on this, but heres my view.

Change yourself only to the point where you have accomplished your task. Don't over do it, and still be yourself. And lastly, don't be clingy.

its the truth in a somewhat hammer to the face way, wich most ppl dislike but looked at sensibly and thru logical eyes will help you get what you want or realize they are not the person for you

Thunda 09-08-2008 07:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tenchu (Post 578889)
I dont understand... what do you mean?

They never find the fruit on the tree because of the leaves. Yet it's all green.

Thunda 09-09-2008 05:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tenchu (Post 579468)
I'm still not getting it. Don't speak to me in riddles.

Then wait until the world turns and the shine of the creator of all life enlightens your mind.

Thunda 09-10-2008 03:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tenchu (Post 580655)
Are you trying to tell me you are about to... "release gas"???

LMFAO


No, my dear friend. May the path between the clouds where the Unlimited Knowledge floats the air like mist, enlighten you.

ThirdSight 09-10-2008 03:57 PM

Oh dear God, not another one.

No one, no one likes a whiner. It's boring, dull, uninteresting, and annoying as heck to those who have to hear it.

Cool if you're going to "love a woman with 100% of your heart" (which, by the by, is a line pulled from the worst kinds of romantic poetry ever to be concieved by either high school poets, country singers, and prepubescent boys who, at the age of 14, believe they know what love is). But don't do it from day one: you don't know her, she doesn't know you, and if you're already so strung along after this point, admit that you're acting more irrational than a normal guy following his heartstrings.

There's no point in getting down in the dumps because a girl, whom you don't even know and who doesn't know you, doesn't like you with as much "love" as you have for her. If you're still confused, please consult the Manual for Basic Biological Attraction and follow it closely.

Salvanas 09-10-2008 05:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThirdSight (Post 580973)
Oh dear God, not another one.

No one, no one likes a whiner. It's boring, dull, uninteresting, and annoying as heck to those who have to hear it.

Cool if you're going to "love a woman with 100% of your heart" (which, by the by, is a line pulled from the worst kinds of romantic poetry ever to be concieved by either high school poets, country singers, and prepubescent boys who, at the age of 14, believe they know what love is). But don't do it from day one: you don't know her, she doesn't know you, and if you're already so strung along after this point, admit that you're acting more irrational than a normal guy following his heartstrings.

There's no point in getting down in the dumps because a girl, whom you don't even know and who doesn't know you, doesn't like you with as much "love" as you have for her. If you're still confused, please consult the Manual for Basic Biological Attraction and follow it closely.

You know. I'm starting to like you more and more.

ThirdSight 09-10-2008 06:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Salvanas (Post 581072)
You know. I'm starting to like you more and more.

It's because I'm sane and rarely late.

Salvanas 09-10-2008 06:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThirdSight (Post 581094)
It's because I'm sane and rarely late.

That's good, we need more sane people on here. It's swamped by fangirls who believe in the most ridiculous things.

Bureda 09-10-2008 06:50 PM

Ima Millionaire,
Im a Young Money Millie in aire, tougher than Nigerian hair,
My criteria compared to your career just isnt fair,
Ima venereal disease like a menstrual bleed..
Threw the pencil and leak the sheet of the tablet in my mind,
Cuz I dont write shit cuz I aint got time,
Cuz my seconds, minutes, hours go to the al mighty dollar,
And the al mighty power of dat chit cha cha chopper,
Sister, Brother, Son, Daughter, Father motha f**k a copper,
Got da maserati dancin on the bridge pussy poppin,
Tell the coppers..hahahaha you cant catch em, you cant stop em,
I go by them goon rules if you cant beat em then you pop em,
You cant man em then you mop em,
You cant stand em then you drop em,
You drop em cuz we pop em like Orville Redenbacher,

[Cory Gunz]
Im Millie in here wit them Young Money Milli on aires,
Think you really pop a wheelie in air,
Mac Milli..the Vanilli’s in here.. im a rascal dont get whopped,
I get brats who dont give top,
I get tassel, pass you wit a flow you could never put a brake on,
An I break on anything a nigga take on,
Feel the napalm from my trey arm, straight long, throw a nigga like im Akon,
Cuz I make cons.. Where the base gone, get the base blown,
Let the Pistons on that chopper come on cops im kamikaze drop a rock wit them Obamas,
Illie in the mind, really wit the nine, millie when I rhyme, silly anytime,
Fine, chilly gitty on da grind, Shitty on a dime, Penny on the line,
Plentys in me, any guinea’s wit em bigger than a mini and remind im..
Illie and its all off G piece and a P..G walk by beep beep,
Wit a freak, skeet, Hawk Out, big feet on a jeep..
She caught by Weezy F, we be the best,
Truely to death prove me the rest,
Groupies confess, you be the ref, excuse me I'll laugh..HaHa

a millionaire im a young money millionaire
what chyall really want it now
y’all dont really wanna do it
if hip hop is dead i am the embalming fluid
and I don’t care who it be, I’m steppin to it
notice I say ‘it’ cuz to me, it ain’t shit
get. it.
call me whacha like trick
call me on my sidekick
never answer when its private
man I hate a shy chick
don’t you hate a shy chick
I had a plate of shy chick and she ain’t shy no mo’
she changed her name to my chick
hahaha, yea boy thats my girl
and she pops excellent up in waynes world
totally dude you should
see their faces when they see that
this robot can move
and its say…
hahaha, yea
and it go…
thats right

I’m a millionaire I’m a
young money cash money fast money
slow money mo’ money neva no money
what is that, who is that, I never heard of it
I will take your picture and make a ‘rest in peace’ shirt of it
tell those niggas beatin to make a rest in peace shirt of me cuz i
killed and now don’t tell no one you heard of me
its like, the beat was screamin, murder me
and i’m a, murderer
so I murdered it

and you nigga is what i eatin ill make sure of it
and he who don’t believe me I’ll make dessert of him
sherbet him, I mean
shame on him, or her
Carter, Father of
this rap thang, this is my race
gon’ take a lap man weezy babys nursery
now gon’ take a nap man, its nap time
I’ll holla back at you at snack time

Weezy… F…. yea, ok
they say I’m rappin like Big, Jay, and Tupac
Andre 3 Thousand where is erykah badu at
who dat
who dat said they gon’ beat Lil Wayne
my name ain’t bic, but I keep that flame
who dat one
dat do dat boy
yall knew dat
true dat swallow
and i be the shhhh
now you got loose bowels
I don’t owe you like two vowels
but I’d like for you to pay me by the hour
hahaha
and I’d rather be pushing flowers,
than to be in the penn sharing showers
see Tony told us this world was ours
and the Bible told us every girl was sour
dont play in the garden and don’t smell her flower
call me Mr. Carter or Mr. Lawn Mower
boy I got so many girls like I’m Michael Lowry
even Gwen Stefani said she couldn’t doubt me

man, life, just ain’t life, with out me
hip hop just ain’t hip hop, with out me

Thunda 09-11-2008 01:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Salvanas (Post 581096)
That's good, we need more sane people on here. It's swamped by fangirls who believe in the most ridiculous things.

3 pointer.

Keaton421 09-11-2008 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Gameslayer22 (Post 577886)
why do you girl go after the jock " good looking" guys,that you know will be a big jerk,only love you until he has seen enough of you,and will make you cry,but leave the sweet quit guys that would probably love you with 100% of his heart to pick up the pieces of his heart that you girls broke?

You sound like the nice guy turned "nice guy"

You're accusing all women of making stupid choices in going after guys, then accusing them to be heartbreakers. Girls may like sad puppies, but not when it's guys acting like that. It just sounds pathetic.


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