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Words' meanings?
If a guy says "I want you" what does it really mean? That he wants her to be with him, he wants to have sex with her, or that he wants her to be his? Maybe all of those? :x
I'm just in a bit of a do-not-know-what-the-hell-to-think-situation. So help me out here, will ya? .__. |
Depends on the situation when he said it
1) I wanna f*ck you 2) I want you to be my girl I'm betting your guy meant the first one. |
Thanks.
He says it all the time. Mostly all random. XD |
I had the same problem with the word mine.
it would be said to me during intimate times, and not intimate times. I still don't know what it could have meant, what he could have meant. |
"Mine"? What about it?
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oh, sorry. I meant in the sense of calling me his... one instance is he would put his arms around my legs, when we were sitting together, and say "mine".
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Hmm... some guys get a bit, what's the word... possessive. It can be a good or a bad thing. My girl and I say we belong to each other, but it's not like I own her or something. I think saying "You're mine" is a bit sweet if they mean it that way
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Sounds like some fucked up shit.
When a man says "I want you" He means he wants you. There is no set meaning to it. |
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ahhhh, two of several words that are emotional land mines - and very related to each other.
About the only clues to what someone means when they say the "want" you or that they regard you as "mine", is: Consider the situation at the moment; Listen to your heart and gut's response when it is said (not your mind's); Ask them to explain. None are foolproof and none can be relied upon beyond the moment. Want someone wants at a givien moment is always subject to change. I would suggest that bearing in mind that this may very well be a passing thought for the other person, what is to be gained or lost by simply accepting it and living in the moment. Sometimes the risk is low and its time to just enjoy, other times the risk is high and you need more input before using what information you have. "Mine" is the one that worries me more. Depending on the person's emotinal state, that can be a very sweet and welcome sentiment. But if the person tend to be overly dependent or possessive, be careful about encouraging it, or even accepting it. |
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Unfortunately I don't know if matters right now, if he is or isn't. |
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