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Originally Posted by spicytuna (Post 784165)

It's definitely possible but as Belyvis mentioned, you should probably meet in person before you make any decisions on your part. Besides, this is a penpal, not someone you meant on a singles site. (As least that's my assumption.)

I met two Japanese girls through an (email) penpal site.

The first one went really well. We were sending emails on a daily basis and eventually started talking on the phone. After a year, I suggested that she visit me in Toronto, and she did. She stayed at my place for a week and after she went back, she sent me an email asking me if I could be her boyfriend if she came over to Canada on a 1yr student visa.

The second one ended up becoming a stalker and actually flew over to Canada after I started ignoring her. I came home from work to find her sitting on my front steps. :eek:

Wow. :eek:

When I was in Japan I had a girl confess her love and ask me to take her back to Alaska so we can "freeze in love together"... I kid you not. She was completely deranged, emotional, and 100% serious.

My host sister told me the girl watches too many T.V. dramas, but I was actually starting to get scared. :vsign:

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Originally Posted by spicytuna (Post 784165)

The second one ended up becoming a stalker and actually flew over to Canada after I started ignoring her. I came home from work to find her sitting on my front steps. :eek

Give me her email. I like women stalkers.

Well this could possibly end up bad depending on if her family is restrictive on if she caneven be with an "outsider" becouse from what i understand alot of people in japan believe that you are not supposed to bring outsiders into your family dont qoute me if im wrong its just what i have heard.

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Originally Posted by Aniki (Post 784362)

Give me her email. I like women stalkers.

Haha!

I've had a total of 3 stalkers in my life. It may sound appealing but trust me, they were not only disturbed but they were pretty heinous to look at as well. (I wouldn't be complaining about them if they were super hot. :))

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Originally Posted by spicytuna (Post 784477)

Only ugly women are stalkers, true.:D

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Originally Posted by bELyVIS (Post 784490)

Only ugly women are stalkers, true.:D

That would be 'sexist' if it didn't work both ways, lol (A handsome stalker must be equally as rare)

Be cautious of what you may find....

She is probably a hairy man sending you pictures of his little sister. Demand a DNA sample.:bigears:

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Originally Posted by burkhartdesu (Post 784491)

That would be 'sexist' if it didn't work both ways, lol (A handsome stalker must be equally as rare)

We were talking about women, but I am sexist anyway (according to a certain someone on here).:ywave:

Meet her first that's the best , you can't even say that she is nice .
Meet her to prove it .