When you love someone who doesn't love you back...
 

What do you do? Im in a situation like that now and I don't know what to do, its the worst feeling in the world.

Get rid of em fast!

no, you have to force him/ her to love you.. force them into submission by relentless pursuit of them
she/ he will see that you are the alfa male/ female and will desire you in the end

Wish it was so easy m8

This guy has no idea what love is.

oh.., i think i get it.. you live too far away from him/ her
because otherwise it's easy to bombard someone with advances until they give in

This is a weird question but is there anyone here who i could pm my msn address and that I could talk too , i rly need someone to talk to , someone who doesn't really know me or so.

LOL... Good luck guys;)

already did

There really isn't a hell of alot you can do. You can't force this person to love you. My suggestion is to remain this persons freind and find someone else.

i believe i am being misquoted here.. i never said rape them until they like it.. i said you need to advance on them and exert yourself (make it known how good of a mate you would be) until the potential mate ends his/ her embargo on you

rape would only work in a 2 player situation where govt does not hold strong influence

I can't say i agree with that you can only prove yourself to a point before you just start looking pathetic. At that point your lucky if that person doesn't avoid you completly.

Its easy, though not to say simples.

from the very limited information i have on your situation,

I would recomend a classic "take away" manouver.

be sure you are cool, funny, interesting etc. around her
but start to keep your distance.

we always want what we cannot have nes paux?

If you like, pm me or post some more details here,
and I will happily give you a definite action plan, that works.
I'm a wise old dog when it comes to these things

I've won every heart i've wanted, and a fair few i havn't

either way, good luck dude, though you shouldnt need it.

finally i will end on some advice that was given to me by a wise old goat when i was but a wee teenage whipper-snapper
"Love yourself, when you Love yourself they will come after you, you will have to beat them off with a sh1tty stick"

as true today as it was back then

just go for it...
 

well since ur d man.. its not a big problem if d girl u love doesn't love you back as long as you do your best to get that girl u like... go for it!

I think you should try for her affections a few more times, but if you keep getting rejected, i urge you to try for someone new even if its hard. You can't keep chasing fruitless endeavors.

Or you can bombard them with advances until you drive them away from yourself. One or the other thing will happen. Persistence doesn't always work, sometimes you need luck.

isit unrequited or did she dump you?

Okay, guys. Here I'm referring to IAmKira, JoshAussie and ozkai.-
If you cannot comment to a thread properly, please don't comment at all. This whole 'making fun of everything' is getting INCREDIBLY annoying. This guy is looking for help - not a stand-up session by insensitive _____s.

And to the founder of this thread - I'm sorry on their behalf. -_-''
If u need someone to talk to, you can PM me. ^^v I know what it's like.. kinda.. Rejection or just knowing that it aint gonna work - well, it just sucks.

Nobody should give any advice when so little information is given. For all we know the OP could be a 40-year-old pedo who's in love with 14-year-old girl/boy or vice versa.

While it is difficult to move on something better always comes along. :)

i don't make fun of serious issues
I have been through the same sh&^ this guy is going through many times over.. too many to count
i was answering how i felt it should be handled
just because it doesn't sit in your realm of standards in thought doesn't mean anything... i don't sit well with the norms.. you know that... i simply gave a viable option for the op
you have to understand that the world is not all goody goody... there are people who really do think the way i have been talking of late.. and to be honest, if i needed to i could shed all my good nature as boot up an operating system that would turn me into the coldest, most calculating sob you ever saw and that is what you saw in those posts

but right now, i am running my "unicorn's and love" operating system; my compassionate side so i will apologize if i made you upset which i obviously have
I'm sorry to you and the op :rheart:

As annoying as NanteNa's criticism of you may be, you cannot question the right to criticize in a post where you are doing likewise.

Not everyone appreciates people who rack up post in the manner she is referring to, but most of us exercise restraint as long as possible before adding to the unnecessary side discussions. She just reached her tolerance limit sooner than the rest.

I never claimed that my opinion is worth more than yours. But flaming each other and making fun of the thread is not cool. And I'm not criticizing your opinions. I'm criticizing your way of sharing it with others. Keep the tone decent.

Don't push it, pal.. and DO NOT tell me to stfu.

Uhh, right.. O_ô I'm not sure what you're trying to say.
This is not ''THE WORLD''. This is JapanForum. I'm a mod of JapanForum - not the world. I'm well aware that the world is not perfect or, as you put it, ''goody goody'', but we have rules on here - and if you cannot stick to those.. I suggest you find somewhere else to play. Encouraging people to go for people against their will is just plain stupid with a twist of insane. I accept the fact that you have an opinion.. but sometimes you're just REALLY creepy.

If you truly love someone, you respect what they feel is best for them. In other words, keep it to yourself, let them move on, and you do the same.

If you are on the receiving end of unwanted affection, you thank them for their affection, explain your feelings and ask them to respect your decision. If they persue you after that, you either see that you don't encounter them again, or you get a restraining order from the local court.

its attitudes like this,

that lead to people have ugly, fat, uninteresting, moronic wives.
and then go abouts cheating on them.

also if you say this
you dont know love
and you are so out of your field of knowledge you just stop reading this thread alltogether.

someone says they want some advice to get a girl, who they "love"
and your advice is

be a fail like me, just give up.

thats your advice? really?

the taln guide to success:
try once, then give up

LOLZ - lurve n00b

And your response reads like a stalker's or at best a wounded puppy dog following around at someone's heels.

Yea total stalker stuff that! :rolleyes:

*ahem* muppet

just cos you fall into the catagory of
"d1ckless wonder" don't try to draw inoocents into your group.

I'd have to agree with Taln on this.

A confession of love is usually just taken as a 'sweet thing to say' to a person who doesn't feel the same way about you.

If you don't accept the person saying that they don't like you the same way back, and you keep going for it, they will just get annoyed and most likely block you out. Just speaking from experience. An admirer is nice, cute and all those good things - unless he/she does NOT understand a firm 'No'.

It's better to let it go and get over it.
This is real life - not Pretty Woman, based on a happy-end.

It is human interaction via proxy, so jf exists in the world as a part of it.
I have stuck to the rules (for the most part :D *evil grimace) My point though i that you have no right to tell me to stop posting because you think my advise is stupid or insane. It's as you say, my opinion and I have every right to be myself or as you so eloquently put it "creepy".....anyway, i'm done defending myself in this thread and derailing it

so, maybe op should dress up in a suit and bring flowers over to her house and say a cheesy line as she opens the door... it would show that he recognizes how ridiculous it is to go through those lengths and yet would retain some of the formality by the fact that he is wearing a suit. or better yet he should propose to her when she comes out.. it would be a funny story for the future

yea the OP PM'd me too :)

i dunno it says something to me that when i say don't give up the good fight,
thats percieved as pester, act needy and generally hound the person into submission.

its called "Game"

in response to Kira,

that can actually work.
and the principles there are actually quite sound.
(bring forth the magixs that is simply holding hands - true A game - if your doing it right - always win ;) )

I think you got a point Salv. >_>'' The founder of the thread def. aint coming back. I assume the unseriousness of the replies made him search elsewhere for help.

There's a difference between showing 'game' and being plain annoying.

Love is an incredibly strong word, you can't make someone love you.

you can either
a) Show her whats he/she's missing- as Tai said, be independant, do your thangg and show him/her that you are a great catch if he/she does get you. Its all about the confidence.

b) Move on. There's not just that ONE person out there.

There is sometimes a delayed and welcome side effect to walking away when the other person doesn't share your affection.

Depending on the circumstances, the person you opened up to but had to give up on may look back on things later and realize they shouldn't have passed up someone like you. When that happens they have been known to come back; though it may or may not be the right time for you.

If you hang around making them uncomfortable that will never happen.

Try to let it go. There are something in life you can not change.
Serious relations happen naturally when both feel the same way about each other.

Loving someone and not beign loved back is horrible, sadly there is not much you can do about it except beign sincere.

Speak with that important person, put apart your lack of trust on yourself, often you think that the other person does not love you, maybe is true, but love is not something that fall from sky, it has to be built up from the base.

Speaking with the person you love and make him understand that you want a chance to prove that he "May" love you too is the easier way to try, you never know who is "the person only for you" (nda Chobits help :P) until you end up finding him/her.

Obviously, no one can say if it will work or not, but if you really like someone, you must risk and try for it, otherwise you will spend all your time blaming yourself for not have tryed when you had a chance.

Andrea.

I hope you all found merit in my first post on the thread!

C'ya all and keep enjoying the TRASH!