courting or friendship???
 

hi...

i like this girl alot...

she has the same school as mine... shes a level higher but im 4 years older

than her....

shes pretty... and shes half italian...

and its pretty intimidating getting close to her....

im just a regular guy....

what should i do???

Try cupping a fart and giving it to her. I did that to the love of my life and she's been my girlfriend for three days now!!!

wow...



sad....

Just out of curiosity, what kind of insights are you expecting?

What about....you know.....her personality?
Does she have one of those?

well i guess the guy tried the fart method, cuz he never came back...
i was gonna say get to know her first and be friends..
sometimes is easier to get into relationships from being friends.

no I did not try the fart method....

well i found out that she has a boyfriend...

her boyfriend called me and told me to stop bothering her...???

sad...

the girl and i we're not actually close...

sad...

he was complaining that i keep n bothering her...

pifff***

Just wait it out.
If she stays with such a jealous paranoid boyfriend, then she's an idiot and not worth the time of day.
If she has any sense, she'll get rid of him then you can take your chance.

Don't beat around the bush though. A simple, 'would you like to go for a drink sometime?' is all you need to say.

Then when it comes to it don't go in expecting anything other than friends. Just relax, and chat away all night...if the conversation never dries up then at the end of the night see where you're at.

what if
 

[WHAT if getting closer to this gal makes him feel there butterflies in his stomach.

Well, imagine that...

Actually, I'm well familiar with that problem.
What you need to do about the butterflies is KILL THEM WITH FIRE and go ahead and say whatever it was that you were going to say anyway. Keep a cool head and try not to let nerves get the better of you.