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WingsToDiscovery 08-19-2010 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by evanny (Post 825030)
i dont get it...why people allways say - so... you date her/him because of the looks or how funny, interesting she/he is?
why dont just date someone who has both? a good looking girl/guy whos also a great person. seems to me like everyone who makes these topics thinks it is impossible to combine...and those people who chose looks are somewhat inferior to those who date person because of their "heart".
thats the part i think is total bullsh**.
i find that actually the beautiful grils i meet and know are also the ones who have the best personality and not the other way around.

That's basically what I've been saying. It's kind of like reverse discrimination. Everyone here is writing off attractive people like they are 100 percent pompous assholes. I don't know how everyone's self esteem issues are here, and I'm not judging, but it sounds like a lot of people here can't score "10"s so they immediately write them off but use the excuse that they're not on the same level of depth or intellect, which is just as stereotypical.

I personally get along with more attractive women as well, both romantically and platonically. I find them to be more outgoing, radiant, and I don't have to deal with their insecurities as much, and best of all, neither do they.

mira 10-18-2010 06:10 AM

Looks are what gets my attention but personality is what keeps in there.

dogsbody70 10-18-2010 09:01 PM

beauty is also in the eye of the beholder.

BakaTensei 10-18-2010 09:34 PM

it all goes hand in hand like, someone could be the smartest, funniest, most down to earth girl anyone could hope for but if your not attracted to her then its hardly going to work =\ they need to have a good personality so that when you grow old together and the looks fade at least you have someone you get along with haha

lenn01 10-19-2010 02:36 AM

I go for personality. Looks aren't that important. To me it's about how they are not how they look like.

AnthonyHisashi 10-19-2010 02:41 AM

Looks are important to keep a physical attraction.
it's only human nature to be attracted by someone's appeal...

However, i myself have had an experience with someone of the opposite gender that isn't whatsoever attractive, They get clingy.. Ridiculously controlling, and adore you to the point of obsession...

Scary stuffs..

neku6217 10-20-2010 02:31 AM

Help
 
any girls wanna help me please?

Yojimbo 11-24-2010 11:52 PM

Depends on what i wanna do with my partner :P

Larbob 11-25-2010 04:53 AM

Hello,

buddy i go for personality 'cuz beauty fades..and thanks for asking this question here which seems interesting to me..

thanks!!


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elizabethlpulley 11-25-2010 05:17 AM

I go for looks at first...if you look can't look at someone then there is no point in dating them....Once I get to know most of them I do end up liking them in the personality perspective....:)


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