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missprincess 11-27-2010 09:44 PM

hmmm
 
hmmm, in my experience i find the same thing to be true about good looking, men, they are really arrogant and think that their too good for anyone, (and usually in the end 99.9% of them end up with total mingers anyway) but, i hate people like that, humbleness is key*

Ronin4hire 11-28-2010 02:21 AM


Kayci 11-29-2010 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Ronin4hire (Post 839555)

Oh my god...
For once...I have to agree with you.
I mean seriously....You got me LOLing in real life.

missprincess 11-30-2010 03:15 PM

wow i already answered your stupidity in the other thread ronin, so im not even going to bother here (sighs...facepalm)

fluff 11-30-2010 04:00 PM

I think it's depend on the situation...

in large group most likely there will be higher intimidate percentage. because the man will start to wonder (alot) if it's OK to take the risk of talking with this girl and what are the percentage that he will not say something stupid\get burned\get reject in front of large audience.
In smaller groups\1on1 the man will think that the percentage of being humiliate will be reduce and it will be just between them -"no one see , no one should know".

tbh if you know the girl (how she act, social group ect.) you can "adjust" yourself in the beginning...but give a spark of your own true colors , cause if not it's not worth it, inside you will be the same squishy man as you were before.

missprincess 11-30-2010 04:38 PM

hmmm its just that in experience ive seen that if a girl is quite good looking, they hardly ever get asked out, and i dont think it has anything to do with the personality bcoz u find that out after u talk to the person, but initially guys dont even approach such girls, then complain that good looking women only go out with minging men! i think reading the jessica alba interview cemented my belief in this

Jessica Alba: I never get asked out | Metro.co.uk
HERES THE INTERVIEW

btw i think that all the men here have at some point shown they would have a little reserve in apporaching a beautiful woman...:)

and i must also mention that as a result of the lack of attention ive seen that alot of beautiful women arent really that confident, (ofcourse there are some women who are stuck up but alot of them arent most of the time) i think we tend to prejudge that if certain people look a certain way they will have a certain type of personality

btw a question for the GUYS if you really like a girl would there ever be sometimes when u would just never make a move regardless of how much u liked her? and if so when

TalnSG 11-30-2010 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by CoolNard (Post 836952)
Confidence and courage are key. Cheesy, but there's a saying that goes, "If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything." I don't doubt its happy-go-lucky exaggeration, but to some extent, that is true.
:D

While it is an exaggeration, the point is well taken. To make someone laugh requires connecting with them on an intellectual level in a positive way. Once you have that, they are going to be far more open and accepting of you than if it was only a superficial exchange.

missprincess 11-30-2010 09:57 PM

i agree that i love it when a man can make u laugh thats like plus 98 outta 100 for them and the other 2 points they get if theyre hot and have a good personality

NanteNa 12-10-2010 12:43 AM

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Originally Posted by missprincess (Post 839539)
hmmm, in my experience...

I wonder where u get that experience... Is it cause it happened to you? (as in.. are you the beautiful chick?) or is it because you WATCHED it go down? Or HEARD that it went down? O_Ô I'm just wondering..

iPhantom 12-10-2010 01:05 AM

A bit intimidated when you like someone and want her to be your friend (or more than that).

As for talking to general chicks, no intimidation at all. Actually they fuel me to talk to them more.


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