Originally Posted by missprincess (Post 839847)

hmmm its just that in experience ive seen that if a girl is quite good looking, they hardly ever get asked out, and i dont think it has anything to do with the personality bcoz u find that out after u talk to the person, but initially guys dont even approach such girls, then complain that good looking women only go out with minging men! i think reading the jessica alba interview cemented my belief in this

Jessica Alba: I never get asked out | Metro.co.uk
HERES THE INTERVIEW

btw i think that all the men here have at some point shown they would have a little reserve in apporaching a beautiful woman...:)

and i must also mention that as a result of the lack of attention ive seen that alot of beautiful women arent really that confident, (ofcourse there are some women who are stuck up but alot of them arent most of the time) i think we tend to prejudge that if certain people look a certain way they will have a certain type of personality

btw a question for the GUYS if you really like a girl would there ever be sometimes when u would just never make a move regardless of how much u liked her? and if so when

Originally Posted by seiki (Post 841096)

That is because Jessica Alba is not attractive.

Originally Posted by missprincess (Post 836398)

is that coz guys find pretty girls intimidating? i mean ive noticed so many hot guys with girls who are really not that pretty and ive noticed girls who are smoking saying that they never get approached by hot guys at all! i find that shocking! and ive experienced that alot aswell, i mean some of my friends are gorgeous and struggle to find a hot guy whereas some real mingers go around with daniel henney look alikes! whats up with that guys!!

Originally Posted by RealJames (Post 841123)

If you changed 'guys' with 'girls' in that paragraph it would explain my experiences and the things I've seen lol
Honestly it goes both ways, especially in Japan you get these butt-ugly foreign guys with the most super-model awesome J-chicks ><
I just say to myself that those chicks have no idea what they really could get.

I think it's an issue where most people take the first thing that comes their way and have a distorted view of themselves as they compare themselves to tv stars.

Originally Posted by seiki (Post 841096)

That is because Jessica Alba is not attractive.

Originally Posted by NanteNa (Post 841166)

I think.. since (let's say) Japanese girls don't see that many white guys in Japan every day, to them a general looking white guy is just hot. White guys have VERY different features from Japanese guys, and I think that that's why the girls like them - even tho they look like crap. You see the same tendency with hot Asian girls coming to Denmark to marry old, saggy 50-year old men.

Originally Posted by MMM (Post 841199)

Foreign men can also represent the potential to get out of Japan, which for a certain faction of women is an attractive proposition.

Originally Posted by RealJames (Post 841203)

A lot of the people that are around me obviously fall into that category as I am a foreigner, but that faction does seem pretty large to me.

The forbidden fruit thing could also be seen as an exotic thing, like "omg your nipples are pink that's so weird, can I touch?" kind of thing

Originally Posted by seiki (Post 841246)

Wait. Asian do not have pink nipples?