Dude, that is one thing you could've learnd from porn ;)

The color of one's nipples go with the rest of the skin color. Like, people with natural tanned skin might have fair brownish nipples, while super pale people might have them slightly pink. That's why the Japanese, who don't have the Caucasian type of fair skin, don't get pink nipples.

YaY! We're discussing nipples! We are so banned...

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its happened to me and ive seen it go down ALOT - i remember sitting in the common room in uni and some girl started crying randomly - her bf had cheated on her and she was crying that it would be impossible for to find a hot guy like him coz good looking guys dont go after pretty girls, i think thats the first proper time i realised it wasnt just a problem i noticed. ive had alot of people tell me im a pretty attractive girl (im not bragging here seriously this is what people say) and ive never had a problem getting a mans attention even if its just walking past them for a split second (and turning heads) but when it comes to getting asked out - its like never - and alot of people ive told are surprised by it - so thats why i was wondering whether its a general problem.
most of the time men dont know my personality - coz i dont always talk infront of guys (that they would get put off by that alone) - so was just wondering why, coz alot of men say im quite intimidating but alot of them also say u shud get married to a rich man u could get one easily, but how am i supposed to get one if i scare the crap out of them before ive even opened my mouth??!
ive had men literally start quiviering slightly when talking to me (you can hear the nervousnes in their voice) so i was just wondering why the hell!!
(btw i dont want everyone to think im an arrogant B but im just sharing my experiences here) :o

btw i know this is really random but does anyone know if takeshi kaneshiro is married? he is hotness and a half! ive heard he was married to some japanese women and their trying for a baby but it just a rumour so far...thanks

I think you're right that it's a common issue.

Perhaps it's because a lot of good looking guys, as with good looking girls, often have insecurity issues, and aren't aware of where they stand or what they could really get.

Even if a girl knows she's hot the guy she might like probably doesn't feel he deserves her. Despite the growing strength of women in the world, most still don't feel comfortable asking a guy out, so the confident guy will have a better chance than the confident woman at getting what he wants.

Ideas?

The confident guy will always have a good shot at getting what he wants. Doesn't matter if he is "hot" or not.

Good point, that's completely true, he may have to be a little more persistent but yeah I agree :)

If a man is self-confident, generally they come to him.

No dude, I like boys who grossly underestimate their looks, I mean like they're gorgeous but they think they're hideous and stupid-- zero self-confidence so they will never leave me durhuuuurrr :D

But seriously, I can't stand super confident men. I don't care how good looking he is, if I discover he's an arrogant douche I LITERALLY stop being sexually attracted to him D: Whereas, a guy who I orginally found ugly can become better looking if I find his personality to be modest and sweet ;)

Though, sexy-confident CAN be pulled off, but Alex Kapranos is the only person capable of such a feat :eek:

Arrogance and self-confidence are two different things.

Men who are gorgeous can have two left feet, and still get girls. That's not what I am talking about.

I am talking about men who are not traditionally handsome, but have an air of confidence. Don't tell me you have never seen a rather plain or pudgy dude with a drop-dead beautiful gal. You don't see the opposite as often.

Actually, I see pudgy ugly girls with cute skinny boys all the time.... Being serious here, I counted them when I went to Six Flags while I waited in line, it was freaking CRAZY. Not to mention I live next to the grossest group of Southern Belles, I mean like the epitome of redneck. They're as wide as they are tall, many of them have several kids and yet there's guys coming by the droves to see them-- some of whom are actually thin and attractive! (granted they're still dumbfuck redneck boys who will soon ~*BLOSSOM*~ into "bubbas" but that's not my point)

I guess I notice cute guys wtih ugly girls more because I'm a girl (so I'm not looking for hot chicks then notice their butt-ugly boyfriends) and vice-versa for you. I've noticed this phenomenon before when my dad commented on all the 'hot chicks with bubba boyfriends' then I told "No man, it's the other way around." Thus, we like to point them out when at Wal-Mart and stuff :D Buuuut I'm from Alabama, and the chicks here are hideous so I suppose I ain't saying much...