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Rush 01-02-2007 11:24 AM

Creepy and Sad.

Maester 01-02-2007 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Rush (Post 18651)
Creepy and Sad.

Yea, I thought it was a kind of sex-doll or something. Well maybe it is, who knows what he does with them after the camera-crew are gone...:p

Kasumi89 01-02-2007 05:05 PM

People do all sorts of weird things. Who really knows?

Kayame 01-02-2007 09:11 PM

I see nothin wrong with the dolls. I mean, it gets the guy asleep at night, and I will be the first to say that knowing that you can love somethin that will never cheat on you, hell I buy it. Like I say -points at quote- Love is a battle field, so why risk your life?

Kasumi89 01-02-2007 09:24 PM

Dont have a clue to why. But, the saying is really true, I should know.

Rush 01-02-2007 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Kayame (Post 18911)
Like I say -points at quote- Love is a battle field, so why risk your life?

Because life is a risk? Just sitting on a computer there's a chance lighting is gonna blow your house up. Worst thing that can happen in a relationship is a no. Unless you don't have judgment and go out with people that looks like a rapist or murderer (is that a word?). What it sounds like to me is you guys are getting to deep of a relation. First year should just be to find out what the person is like. Maybe even second or third. Taking a quick look at your profile you're 14. The way you talking it sounds like you want to get marry right away. Now why the hell am I talk so much. :confused:

Vesperd 01-02-2007 09:43 PM

well im not against this, or am i with it.. if dolls make you happy go ahead :)

lady_kyoko 01-02-2007 11:58 PM

It seems sad to me...
Dolls can never make up for a real human being v.v
But if it makes them happy, i guess its their choice and all...
and lmao at the jar jar binks article XD

MementoMori 01-23-2007 05:48 AM

Dolls seem like a wonderful Idea for a guy/girl who has had their heart broken. but not like something someone should rely on

Maku 01-23-2007 05:50 AM

I won't interfere in someone's private life.
Whatever floats your boat really.

jasonchua 01-23-2007 07:48 AM

lots of Japanese women leaving Japan
 
facing otaku guys at home, its no wonder lots of Japanese women are heading overseas. New York Times says New York is the destination
Want a Japanese girlfriend? Go to New York.. - JapanSugoi - Everything Cool about Japan

annelie82 02-10-2007 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Ash (Post 28069)
It can, and does. I explained how earlier in this thread.

I agree with lady_kyoko. A doll can never replace a real person. It cannot agree with you. It cannot disagree with you. It can never respond in kind to or show gratitude for any tokens of affection that you bestow on it. It would be a completely passive, one-way relationship. Any qualities or characteristics attributed to the doll, such as food and music preferences or political views, would have to be thought up and expressed by its owner. A doll can never provide the intellectual stimulation offered by a human being.

But the interesting thing about these guys isn't so much the fact that they've chosen dolls as life partners as the reason why they've made this choice. Some experience in their upbringing or dating history has obviosuly traumatized them to the point that they are incapable of trusting other people, which in turn has given them a compulsive, all-consuming need to control others in order to avoid a repeat of the original trauma. Since dolls for obvious reasons are easier to control than real people, it's no wonder these guys have chosen the 'safe' option of dating dolls.

And therein lies the problem, I suppose. By dating dolls these guys are not dealing with their trust issues, they're escaping from them. Going on a date with a doll is obviously a lot less confrontational and unpredictable than going on a date with a real person, since you're in control of the 'conversation' and won't have to worry about your date disagreeing with you on anything.

Personally I think these guys would be better off spending $2000 on therapy rather than on dolls. Once they've sorted through their issues, if they still feel that dating dolls is preferable to dating real people, then why not? At least then they will have made such a decision with the proper frame of mind, and without their need to control people influencing their reasoning.

~annelie

animeomarguy 02-10-2007 09:08 PM

Is it wrong to love something not human? The answer is no. But to love that object to extent of rejecting everyone else, I believe THAT is wrong.

annelie82 02-11-2007 04:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by animeomarguy (Post 41633)
Is it wrong to love something not human? The answer is no. But to love that object to extent of rejecting everyone else, I believe THAT is wrong.

My thoughts exactly.

~annelie

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Zpenergy 10-31-2007 12:25 PM

I like women too much to consider turning to dolls...

bloodsinger 10-31-2007 12:46 PM

Eurgh. The thought of anyone turning to dolls just to do it horrifies me.

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BritishBlue 11-26-2007 10:21 AM

It's so sad that a human being feels so isolated that they feel they must resort to something like this.
It is very strange behaviour though, even if I had to be alone all my life I certainly wouldn't buy a bloody doll! :rolleyes: Just buy a living, breathing pet to keep you company..

Sketchy 09-19-2008 07:41 PM

Funny thread, thanks for bumping Mr. Spammer

Guys pay some crazy prices for those dolls.

Guigoo 07-30-2009 06:42 PM

they'd better pay for a callgirl. at least she'd be warm

Miyavifan 07-30-2009 08:21 PM

boy you replied to a really old thread. why?

Guigoo 07-30-2009 09:13 PM

i'm new hear, i was just replying to interesting threads

is it any bad?

Miyavifan 07-30-2009 09:18 PM

I was just wondering. Usually people don't reply to threads this old.

Guigoo 07-30-2009 10:05 PM

i see, well, if noone replies it's fine as well. just wanted to express my thoughts

Miyavifan 07-30-2009 10:08 PM

that's fine. :)

anyway...

Yuna7780 07-31-2009 12:08 AM

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Guigoo 08-08-2009 02:26 AM

good brand new chobit world

ThaDuke 08-08-2009 02:31 AM

Thread Resurrected!

I don't blame the guys for having these dolls. Just think, they don't have to put up with all the crap that comes after having sex. There is no commitment here.

It's :rheart: .

hinata2 08-08-2009 02:57 AM

yes u got a point there but who would want to have sex with a doll and not someone real

ThaDuke 08-08-2009 05:15 AM

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Originally Posted by hinata2 (Post 758095)
yes u got a point there but who would want to have sex with a doll and not someone real

Someone who can afford not to listen to her anymore. :mtongue:

Kandierain15 08-08-2009 05:30 AM

What I don't like is how because of the internet and all that, people are becoming so antisocial... then these dolls come along and its like, does the world not want to deal with other humans ever again?

Ronin4hire 08-08-2009 05:52 AM

Eh? I saw a similar documentary except it was about lonely American guys. Actually I think it was 60 minutes or 20/20. One of the guys they interviewed was an old guy who had fashioned the doll after his ex girlfriend. Weird stuff...

Anyway my point is that I don't think this is just a Japanese thing.

mercedesjin 08-12-2009 12:13 AM

That's sad. Really, really sad.

I've never heard of this kind of thing about women, though. In a lot of different cultures, sure, but never with women.

bELyVIS 08-12-2009 01:06 AM

Dolls don't nag you and if they do it you can put them into the box and close it.

Aniki 08-12-2009 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by bELyVIS (Post 759417)
Dolls don't nag you and if they do it you can put them into the box and close it.

The same you can do with your wife/girlfriend, but after that...well...you know.

seiki 08-12-2009 03:20 PM

I saw a documentery on real dolls this old man was dressing them up and he had a schedule with them and he would come home and have dinner with them and talk about his problems with them... Then he would go to bed with them and im sure you know where this is going to end up.

Yuusuke 08-12-2009 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by seiki (Post 759784)
I saw a documentery on real dolls this old man was dressing them up and he had a schedule with them and he would come home and have dinner with them and talk about his problems with them... Then he would go to bed with them and im sure you know where this is going to end up.

you have to give me this link

I must see this

Quailboy 08-12-2009 03:59 PM

Dude..I was on the real dolls website a second ago..you can get like elf ears and wings on them..for the hardcore WoW players! >_<
Theres also a shemale option >_> Epic

seiki 08-12-2009 04:40 PM

They disabled embedding but here is a link to part one of five.
YouTube - Real Doll experiences (pt1/5)


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