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Sblegach 08-02-2009 11:44 PM

No I hate being single... there arent enough people in my life to talk too and ill admit im tired of break ups. Isnt there just a girl out there for me >_< Im tired of living in the 75% of all failed high school relationships...

kMal 08-03-2009 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Sblegach (Post 755863)
No I hate being single... there arent enough people in my life to talk too and ill admit im tired of break ups. Isnt there just a girl out there for me >_< Im tired of living in the 75% of all failed high school relationships...

first of all: chill the fuck out. when you want socialisation, you have to work hard to get it. all of us do. getting and maintaining relationships of all degrees is important. and do NOT rush things for the love of God. Be yourself, as for the love part. You WILL have a girl/man you care about and she/he will care about you too.

Sblegach 08-03-2009 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by kMal (Post 755867)
first of all: chill the fuck out. when you want socialisation, you have to work hard to get it. all of us do. getting and maintaining relationships of all degrees is important. and do NOT rush things for the love of God. Be yourself, as for the love part. You WILL have a girl/man you care about and she/he will care about you too.

Im straight thank you very much, and male >_>

Kyrie 09-03-2009 02:45 PM

Well, I am 19 years old now, and never had a girlfriend.
I would really like to have one, but I don't regret being single at all, I can get through live und have fun in every way, without a girlfriend aswell ;)

The reason for me not having a girlfriend until today is probably, that I am really into Asian girls, and in the city I am living, it is rare to see an Asian girl ;)
Another reason would be my shyness... just can't get over it, dammit !

zombiegeisha 09-03-2009 03:01 PM

well, i'm single by definition.
I'm currently in, like, a love pentagon.
One is my best friend, who loves me til no end, but i just don't have those types of feelings for him.
Another was my first love, who i still miss sometimes, but he has other obligation elsewhere.
The next is someone I just met, and i don't know if anything will spark yet.
The main one is someone I started a relationship with in January, and is going through hard personal time, that i seriously, severely don't want to lose.

I do consider myself taken by the main one, but i'm not officially.


so, no, i don't like being single. because junk like this always seems to start.

HBP 09-03-2009 03:17 PM

Yes, I do enjoy it.
Being single I can focus on myself a lot more.
And what's more, I've comed to realize that I have much more fun being single than together with someone.
I can't really explain why it is like that, but it just is and I love it!
Everything just seem to be going great for me right now. So, yeah, I love being single.

MC9876 09-03-2009 05:04 PM

I am single at the moment, and pretty happy. Though I wouldn't mind having a girlfriend. I am not actively searching, but I would step up to a girl when I think she's ok.
What does piss me of, is that friends that have a girlfriend suddenly want to gve my advice to get a girlfriend or are trying to hook you up. :mad:

HungryForRamen 09-03-2009 05:23 PM

I'm single at the moment.
Sometimes I'm lonely and I want a boyfriend, and sometimes I'm really happy just flirting around and looking, but I'm ultimately not happy with being single.

darksyndrem 09-11-2009 02:26 AM

I'm currently single, and am perfectly happy.....with dancing (at least over here) you develop a relationship with the people you regularly dance with, that's on a higher level of intimacy (that doesn't really have to do with sexual...ness) so...really....my "just friend" relationships, are a lot different than your average "just friend" relationships....we do a lot of things that would be considered "awkward" for a lot of people.....why those things are awkward to some people, I have no idea, but w/e.....well that's all I can think of to type right now

Vie 10-18-2009 05:30 PM

being single atm, quite enjoying it... not bad. But get some close friends would b better since you know you always have someone there to talk to. So far I dont wanna get into a relationship ^^


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