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ThirdSight 08-13-2008 12:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Mika13 (Post 561033)
Okay then. A quick word to the guys from a girl who spent all her time with you instead of other chicks.

As smart as women believe they are, we all have the tendancy to be the most blind, deaf and dumb things you ever met. We're short-sighted, we can't take it when dealt, we make mountains out of molehills, we can take something and link it to you cheating and not thinking we're pretty anymore, and most of us are extremely self-consious and constantly worried about are image, weight, hair color, etc. So from all the chicks who can realize this, I'm sorry we never notice you, but Salvanas does have a point.

You'll never be wanted if all you do is whine.

My sister found a brilliant way to sum this up: "Men are retarded, and women are crazy." Makes a lot of sense if you think about it.

Men are usually simple creatures. We take things at face value, are firm believers in simplicity, and care less about problems that don't have any direct effect on our lives. Women are fans of reading between the lines, fans of complexity, and are immediately affected by anything in this world, regardless if it has any direct effect on their lives or not (girl gossip is a stereotype for a reason). A girl will say something meaning something else, and the guy will take what's said at face value, causing confusion and miscommunication.

In the overdone, poetic, I'll-be-there-for-you example, the girl will cry on the guy's shoulder because she needs someone or something to vent her issues, so she chooses her close male friend (thinking he may understand her guy problems being a guy himself). The guy takes this at face value, believing that the girl cares enough for him to become so vulnerable around him.

The end result? Girls complain that there's never any nice guys out there in the world, and guys complain that they never get women because they're nice guys.

Salvanas 08-13-2008 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by usako1991 (Post 561137)
lols^^ yeah i guess this is true... but there are some things that you cannot do no matter how hard you try... ^^ some people are just shallow so no matter what one does that person will only use you for one thing... thats just for some^^

Then these people are not worth caring about. It's a win/win situation.

AsianG1 08-14-2008 02:58 AM

wow
most girls overlook the smallest of things
dont we?

not trying to sound mean or anything

ThirdSight 08-14-2008 03:52 AM

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Originally Posted by AsianG1 (Post 562148)
wow
most girls overlook the smallest of things
dont we?

not trying to sound mean or anything

As long as you're human, you're guilty of this.

Nearly everyone on the planet takes things for granted, and only realizes what we had when we can't have it anymore.

LLawliet 08-22-2008 04:41 PM

Man i'm glad i didn't treat my hubby that badly when i first met him or i might not have him today...this exact poem was sent to me by a good friend on myspace...was always wondering who wrote it...good for him, he knows how to treat a woman, i hope his treats him good.

VampireGirl1314 08-22-2008 05:23 PM

lol i put that poem in my post a poem hope you dont mind Mark.>^_^<

Oren 08-22-2008 05:59 PM

It's heartbreaking to hear things like this poem, but it is true enough. I know some girls are the same as the guy in this poem, but not as often.
It's refreshing to see some gentlemen still do exist in this world. And I'm glad to hear the author of the poem is in a relationship right now. I hope she's worth it.

Thunda 08-23-2008 12:24 AM

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Originally Posted by EveV (Post 517059)

Problems in relationships happen because of a lack of communication most of the time.

Ya that's correct.

"Oh honey. I just didn't want to argue."

Bureda 08-23-2008 01:24 PM

People who read the first page of this thread and try to fix themselves on what's said are those who will fail at a relationship.

Let's be honest here. Everyone has a general understanding of morals and respect. Learn those and you will be fine.

Love yourself for who you are, not for who you are not. If you worry too much about what you read here or what others say then you will absolutely fail.

Your relationship is between you and your partner and because everyone's unique you cannot simply write down the problems.

You have to work together and be harmonious at problem solving.

CarleyGee 08-23-2008 01:26 PM

That dude sounds like the perfect guy.
However, I haven't seen him around here, where exactly is this type of man?? : D


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