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WOW i just caught this and its so ironic because i was having this type of conversation with a friend of mine yesterday. As much as it sucks a lot of its true but to fair it does go both ways but man when i see some of the guys girls go for especially my friends and my phone starts blowing up at 4am im like "here we go again" So for any girls that say a nice guy is hard to find or there are no nice guys try taking a look around there are plenty of them.
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What people don't realise is that girls and boys grow out of this after they hit around 17-18.
This self pity that I see some boys and girls on these forums have for themselves is actually quite pathetic, personally. Stop whining, the only way you'll get a girl/boy is if you either do the following. 1: Being more confidence. People like that. 2: Stop feeling self pity for yourselves. 3: You might be physically repulsive, I'm not saying you all are, but people might find you it. Look into the mirror and see what you can improve on, without changing your personality. 4: Or just wait until everyone grows up. There's no point in rushing into relationships. They're not worth it at the young age. |
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Sadly, as this being the 98569214578623rd nice-guys-are-awesome-and-should-be-appriciated-more-than-loser-guys-who-treat-you-badly poem, it's lost it's punch and creativity.
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Note: I'm not calling you, or anyone here a whiner. |
Okay then. A quick word to the guys from a girl who spent all her time with you instead of other chicks.
As smart as women believe they are, we all have the tendancy to be the most blind, deaf and dumb things you ever met. We're short-sighted, we can't take it when dealt, we make mountains out of molehills, we can take something and link it to you cheating and not thinking we're pretty anymore, and most of us are extremely self-consious and constantly worried about are image, weight, hair color, etc. So from all the chicks who can realize this, I'm sorry we never notice you, but Salvanas does have a point. You'll never be wanted if all you do is whine. |
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Men are usually simple creatures. We take things at face value, are firm believers in simplicity, and care less about problems that don't have any direct effect on our lives. Women are fans of reading between the lines, fans of complexity, and are immediately affected by anything in this world, regardless if it has any direct effect on their lives or not (girl gossip is a stereotype for a reason). A girl will say something meaning something else, and the guy will take what's said at face value, causing confusion and miscommunication. In the overdone, poetic, I'll-be-there-for-you example, the girl will cry on the guy's shoulder because she needs someone or something to vent her issues, so she chooses her close male friend (thinking he may understand her guy problems being a guy himself). The guy takes this at face value, believing that the girl cares enough for him to become so vulnerable around him. The end result? Girls complain that there's never any nice guys out there in the world, and guys complain that they never get women because they're nice guys. |
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most girls overlook the smallest of things dont we? not trying to sound mean or anything |
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Nearly everyone on the planet takes things for granted, and only realizes what we had when we can't have it anymore. |
Man i'm glad i didn't treat my hubby that badly when i first met him or i might not have him today...this exact poem was sent to me by a good friend on myspace...was always wondering who wrote it...good for him, he knows how to treat a woman, i hope his treats him good.
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lol i put that poem in my post a poem hope you dont mind Mark.>^_^<
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It's heartbreaking to hear things like this poem, but it is true enough. I know some girls are the same as the guy in this poem, but not as often.
It's refreshing to see some gentlemen still do exist in this world. And I'm glad to hear the author of the poem is in a relationship right now. I hope she's worth it. |
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"Oh honey. I just didn't want to argue." |
People who read the first page of this thread and try to fix themselves on what's said are those who will fail at a relationship.
Let's be honest here. Everyone has a general understanding of morals and respect. Learn those and you will be fine. Love yourself for who you are, not for who you are not. If you worry too much about what you read here or what others say then you will absolutely fail. Your relationship is between you and your partner and because everyone's unique you cannot simply write down the problems. You have to work together and be harmonious at problem solving. |
That dude sounds like the perfect guy.
However, I haven't seen him around here, where exactly is this type of man?? : D |
They do not exist, they can exist if you find a smart guy. Since all he has to do is look at you in a stereotypical way and buy you flowers and all the rest.
It's a matter of thought, not being. :O |
It's the most easiest thing acting like the perfect "guy". The hard part is keeping up the act. |
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