[Kasumi89]

ok. Ususllay when you click on a name for who is on you get their page.
You will get their picture on the top left and below that you get this add to buddy list and over on the right add to ignore list.Below that you get Fourm info and contact info. Look at contact info and you will see Email and Private message. Now PM stands for Private Message, so click the blue letters Send Private Message and then you can type to them. Be sure that when you are done tying to click send, sometimes I click preview message and click out. lolz. When you get a message, you can check by scrolliong to the top after you click on the Japan Forum name you get your picture and under that is Private messahes and it shows how many you have. Click Private messages and you get a list of all the messages you have. If you have a new one its a gold and if you have looked at it its blue and if you have responded it is blue and has arrows. To tell if you have sent a message you look for a little box that says inbox(#of messages) and click that and go to sent items and that will tell you the thinhs you have sent.

If you have any more questions, feel free to ask me!