[youseikun]

Just remember that the lolita look is pretty much trying to imitate a Victorian doll.
So if you can do spiral curls, do it.
Tie a ribbon in your hair, or try to find a small top hat of some sorts. ^_^
Try to find a choker of some sort too, just try not to make it look too goth.
Try dark, but sweet and innocent. ^_^
Also gloves would be good too.
Hope I helped.
and that I'm not too late X] lol