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02-12-2008, 10:19 AM
KikyoHikari - Fifteen is still a bit too young to do much of anything there. Still can't get a room on your own, etc. If your friend is 18-20 things will be a little better, but it will still be quite difficult, and still dangerous. You can't ask for the people here to just, as you put it, "be nice and give confidence and stuff", because that's not going to do you any good. This is not just criticism, it's constructive criticism. It's a warning -- one that you should take to heart, because it's coming from people who have a lot more worldly experience than you do. You may think you're on top of the world and can handle any situation you come across, but you're wrong -- once you realize that and make more rational decisions, you'll be one step closer to being ready. It's something that everyone has to come to terms with in their lifetime. It's a common cognitive distortion.
Hyakushi - Legal drinking age in Japan is 20, so you don't need to be 21 for sake and beer.
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