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Originally Posted by spicytuna
I've made it my personal mission to help with this crisis during my next visit to Japan.  |
I'm working on it myself, my wife(japanese) is due in August.
Having talked to my wife a litle bit about this topic before, I don't really think the proposed solution will work. How she explained it is that after the first child many of the typical salaryman/housewife couples see their job as done with respect to having kids. Allready having a kid to carry on the family name and take care of them when they are older they pursue other activities and sometimes sex elsewhere. With that kind of perspective the only way is to change the burden of having kids and also the perspective of what it is to have kids.