[Tsuwabuki]

Style is about how pieces look on you. Some cuts do not look good on all people. Clothes should be tailored to even out disparity between body areas.

I am sure gothic lolita can be worn by everyone, just the pieces in question need to be properly cut and tailored in order to present a coherent look.

The biggest mistake we can make stylistically is to wear clothes that are too small or too large or don't fit right across our frame. The clothes may look great alone, but they'll always look wrong if they're not the right fit.