Things that prevent you from getting a GF/BF

[HinataUchiha]

my parents wont let me

[hennaz]

No one really wants to date me, but I don't understand why (all the girls I know personally either live too far away from me, have boyfriends already or are simply not that attractive (or all of the reasons given).

[Drend]

Originally Posted by Drend

The ones I usually like just happen to be super submissive and I can be a huge ass at times and I hate seeing/hearing girls cry ;___; . That, along with me never leaving the house ;;>_>

I'm gonna go ahead and add to myself that I tend to attract the wrong type of girls. Most of them have no clue what I do outside of school or my interests, and I'm sure if they did they wouldn't understand it at all. Yuujirou is pretty popular with the ladies XD I believe I may have seen the Yuujirou Technique in action once or twice.

[TalnSG]

Originally Posted by KohanaIto

WTF?? O_o every reply I've read is about happy single people! I doubt any of you really want to be single....you just like being it now cause you are single now.

Oh, wrong. Some of us really DO enjoy our independence quite a bit. Invariably when I encounter an opportunity for anything beyond a friendship, I find myself recalling all the things it would require me to either moderate or abandon completely. It will take an incredible person to give me the incentive to sacrifice the peace and tranquility of oneness. I am not saying that such a person doesn't exist, but I do not ache to find him.

The other major deterent is that my preference in men is not white, christian, conservatives which happen to be the majority of the single, male population here when you reach my age bracket. Now if more of my 20-30 yr old friends in the Asian community here had single uncles or fathers, I might have a few more choices.

BTW Yuujiro, while I agree that you are the most (openly) effeminate male on JF, your mindset is defintely not. I think that is why you attract as many females as you do. The pairing does you justice. A shift of either aspect would hold less interest.

[Salvanas]

Originally Posted by KohanaIto

Dude! WTF?? O_o every reply I've read is about happy single people! I doubt any of you really want to be single....you just like being it now cause you are single now. As for me....I don't do well in relationships -_- my longest lasted, what, two weeks? I get bored really fast, I haven't met any one who can keep me interested long enough to hold on -_- it's not that bad but it gets me a whole lot of rude comments. I was most recently likened to an iceberg...but i do love the cold
Anyhoo go people who enjoy themselves as they are!
ta

Not everyone wants to be in a relationship.

[DagothUr]

Originally Posted by Salvanas

Not everyone wants to be in a relationship.

!!!!!!AMEN!!!!!

[yuujirou]

Originally Posted by Salvanas

Unless I really feel something for the girl, I find relationships a hassle.

I don't find the need to be in one, unless I really feel something. Otherwise, then it's just a simple fling. And if it's a simple fling, I can have one without the relationship involved.

Not to mention, I try to repel the feeling of "love", once it catches you, say hello to miserable days. I'm too young and health to feel miserable.

Not to mention, I flirt too much for my own damn good. So much that it's become second nature now.

dude...
i was like in my gf's arms one night watching a movie with her when her sister came home... we started talking and at some point, her sister threatened to slap me for something...
and i took it as an invitation for some bdsm >.>'''
my gf was NOT happy w/ that.... xD

*i flirt too much as well ;_;" *

@taln.. how do you mean my mindset is not? xDD

[forgotenmemory]

. Is STILL 13
. Is scared of girls :x
.Shy
.attracts girls I feel no attraction to.

Overall, I'm too nice >:3 I attract girls becaseu I'm not meant to them liek most kids.

[Tordek42]

Too shy, too odd and a complete idiot really...

[CarleyGee]

Shy, and stubborn.
Not a good combination.

Plus + Everyone my age is hopelessly immature.