I wanna confess to him how i feel,should i and how?? - Page 2

wickedspell · (#11 (**permalink**))

maybe you guys are right.
but it BUGS me~~~!

Aniki · (#12 (**permalink**))

Just write a letter telling that you find him attractive with your email in it. Then give it to your friend so she'd pass it to him. If he feels anything for you then he'll contact you, if not, then you should move on.

spicytuna · (#13 (**permalink**))

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aniki

Just write a letter telling that you find him attractive with your email in it. Then give it to your friend so she'd pass it to him. If he feels anything for you then he'll contact you, if not, then you should move on.

He's Japanese. Of course he'll return it out of the politeness of the Japanese culture.

He'll probably say that he's flattered but that he's busy relocating, adjusting to his new position, etc. He may even tell her to give him a shout if she's ever in town.

But alas, that's the Japanese way of saying no...

wickedspell · (#14 (**permalink**))

The issue is not about me taking the wrong idea about his friendliness step too far. I know he maybe nice to me as a regular customer.not that i didnt think about that.

But actually it's been almost 5months now since i knew him.
5months with no guts to talk about anything excpet about shopping(lol)

I'm just a woman who likes a man. am i wrong to fall in love with a shop salesman ?
im willing to try to confess to someone i like,so why are you saying as if i 'll definitely get rejected already? (TT)

if he's really going to reject me like you said,then i'll be fine.
i'll just move on.
but not right now.i have to finish my mission(^^)

wickedspell · (#15 (**permalink**))

Btw,i've waited during those 5months for him to make the first move. .But he didnt becoz maybe he never likes me at all,or he's just shy ,i dont know. so that's why im going to find out.
make the first and only move. If he doesnt give me back any sign,then i'll be able to move on.
Cant explain,but it's kinda like an unfinished business...u know what i mean??

MMM · (#16 (**permalink**))

Salesmen in shops don't make moves on their customers, because if you complained to his boss he would be fired.

wickedspell · (#17 (**permalink**))

i hope that's the reason.
Anyway,people...
im going to fly on 2nd January.
when i stop by at Narita airport ,i'll drop a card for him.
i'm giving my self a dateline until 15th jan to get a reply from him.
in the meantime,wish me good luck.
I'll come back and tell you guys the result,whether it's a happy or sad ending.

~H-a-P-P-y-N-e-W-Y-e-A-R everyone~