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Help i really need it - 06-21-2009, 01:28 PM

Me and my ex have been on a on/off relationship for about two years now, worse part is were not even allowed to see eachother cause my friend ratted me out to her parents about me and him having sexual relations, and her parents told mine, and mine told his, so i feel like our love never had a chance, just recently after he had dated a few other girls, one he told he had fell in love with now it seem like he finally moved on, worse part is he likes to pm about him and his new girlfriend, when he gonna go on a date, etc. When just about last week he had said he wanted to get married to me , and have kids and name them optimus and demyx, he also said that before i moved (im moving ) he was gonna write me a thirty paged love letter, and so on, and so on, but as of yesterday, he pm'ed me and told he had a date on tuesday, and about how cutely shy she is, and how she said she wanted to kiss him...... and blah blah.... he also told me i should move on. so i have no choose but to move on i guess, but i want to hold and make it work, what should i do?
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06-21-2009, 02:14 PM

You should not even worry about dating and marriage until you move out of your parents' house.
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06-21-2009, 05:54 PM

How old are you?
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06-21-2009, 06:24 PM

I read that wrong and thought you put, 'he even wanted to name our kids Octopus' lmao.

Anyway, that's how immature guys are, (and girls) they don't care that much and it takes them 5 minutes to move on.
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06-21-2009, 06:27 PM

well, i dont know how old you are, but you sound too young to be thinking of marriage just yet, and honestly this guy sounds very immature to me, i think it would be best for you to move on, painful as it may be, you are young and will meet someone else!Good Luck!


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06-21-2009, 07:30 PM

Move on if he really loves you he would not be dating some one else


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06-21-2009, 07:40 PM

I believe both of you have a lot of growing up and maturing to do. About two decades' worth would be sufficient.


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06-21-2009, 07:53 PM

Threads like this always remind me why it's still worth to keep showing up here...Optimus and Demyx...what a perfect way to make some kids life a nightmare.
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06-21-2009, 09:12 PM

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How old are you?
Im 15 right now
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06-21-2009, 09:30 PM

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Im 15 right now
Then I would just worry about being 15 and don't even think about dating until you graduate from high school.
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