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Peachboy 08-08-2009 05:55 AM

Help with gal problems
 
okay so this girl i like finally talks to me and i freak out cos im really shy
and i think i cam off really cold. anyway three days later in our next class together she dosent even talk to me, comes in late and leaves early and yeah.
why is she ignoring me and can i fix it
please help

Taranee987 08-08-2009 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Peachboy (Post 758132)
okay so this girl i like finally talks to me and i freak out cos im really shy
and i think i cam off really cold. anyway three days later in our next class together she dosent even talk to me, comes in late and leaves early and yeah.
why is she ignoring me and can i fix it
please help

I think she might have felt offended, and that is why she gives you "the cold shoulder" try and talk to her before or after some of your classes, and just tell her "your sorry for seeming cold but i'm really shy" and when this works you at least have your friendship

hinata2 08-08-2009 11:25 AM

yea you should talk to her it will make things better she might even understand

kyo_9 08-08-2009 03:12 PM

just send her an email or whateva necessary..
sometimes it's better off starting a relationship by mailing first to get to know each other..

Sblegach 08-08-2009 03:26 PM

Wait outside the class for her and explain what happened. Tell her you were shy and afraid. She will understand, dont worry man you got this 8D

webzine9909 11-24-2009 10:42 AM

Well ,
if i were you ,

just be yourself ,
dont let your shyness kill you!

just say what you say ,
do what you want ,

superyen 11-24-2009 11:24 AM

she probably feels stupid.

when you talk to her, don't be too eager!! :coldbear:

TalnSG 11-24-2009 01:37 PM

Absolutely tell her - in person - not an email. One -she should appreciate the effort you make to catch up with her, two - she will appreciate it even more when she realizes that your shyness means the explanation in person was even harder.

At this point if she is actually avoiding you she probably feels embarrassed because she thinks she made the first move on a guy who had no interest in her. You need to clear that up ASAP, before the bad feelings over making a mistake have a chance to sour into dislike.


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