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It just takes time. You can rationalize it anyway you would like, think of reasons why you would not have worked out in the end, but when it comes down to it, it just takes time. Just think postive about yourself an try not to let it get you down, and surround yourself with friends and other things to take your mind off of him.

Are you obsessed with him? I swear I'll never understand this..

Take my advice though, don't get a bf, just go to parties and fuck around instead, it'll save you all the drama=D

Oh yes, and before you know it you'll have warts under your shorts, and you'll spend your thirties in a bed . . .

Your forties aren't lookin' so good . . .

I totally understand. Same here...find the things that you like, maybe it's putting on make-up, or maybe it's going for bike rides, perhaps it's going to watch a funny movie! Find the things that you like to do, and do them! Also, root yourself in some good girlfriends; one who'll back you up, listen to you, and go along with you on the things you like tio do! It's important to not be alone too much. Some quiet time with your thoughts is always good, but don't be alone all the time, it's just going to make the sorrow even worse.

I hope it helps! I've been doing this, and it's been going well. It doesn't mean you won't ever think of him, and never miss him. You wouldn't be human if you didn't! That's okay if you do. Just always remember, you're just as good a woman, even if you don't have a man by your side!!

You go, Nobora!!! XD

~HJG~

Well I am glad to hear that.

me too ^^ it's almost like it never happened