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help me
it's over between me and my not bf. he broke up with me. and yet i still look to see if i have a message from him. how can i get over him? help me please
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It just takes time. You can rationalize it anyway you would like, think of reasons why you would not have worked out in the end, but when it comes down to it, it just takes time. Just think postive about yourself an try not to let it get you down, and surround yourself with friends and other things to take your mind off of him.
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ok i'll try that. but im still hoping he'll come back to me.. |
MMM you can close this thread. |
Are you obsessed with him? I swear I'll never understand this..
Take my advice though, don't get a bf, just go to parties and fuck around instead, it'll save you all the drama=D |
Oh yes, and before you know it you'll have warts under your shorts, and you'll spend your thirties in a bed . . .
Your forties aren't lookin' so good . . . |
I totally understand. Same here...find the things that you like, maybe it's putting on make-up, or maybe it's going for bike rides, perhaps it's going to watch a funny movie! Find the things that you like to do, and do them! Also, root yourself in some good girlfriends; one who'll back you up, listen to you, and go along with you on the things you like tio do! It's important to not be alone too much. Some quiet time with your thoughts is always good, but don't be alone all the time, it's just going to make the sorrow even worse.
I hope it helps! I've been doing this, and it's been going well. It doesn't mean you won't ever think of him, and never miss him. You wouldn't be human if you didn't! That's okay if you do. Just always remember, you're just as good a woman, even if you don't have a man by your side!! You go, Nobora!!! XD ~HJG~ Quote:
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Thanks but we did get back together and he did it the most amazing way. @kungmartin no im not obsessed and ^^” |
Well I am glad to hear that.
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Soooo how did he do it.
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That is very nice I hope he meant it.
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Awesome!! I am SOOOO happy for you guys!! XDDDDDDDDD
On the other hand, the guy I'm dealing with just sent me this sappy and fake text message...XP He's such a weirdo... But, I'm so glad it worked out for you!!!! XDDDDDDDD ~HJG~ |
The funniest part is that I was about to post a reply saying to get over him and he was worthless lol
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Seiki >< @hjg thank you, im sorry that the guy your dealing with only sent you a message. |
Well, congrats! And I hope he means it this time!
This actually reminds me (yep, a bit of story time, sorry but need to get it out) when my last ex and I had a argument and it was partially my fault. We agreed to go to my place just to relax but I could tell she wasn't happy. So at the last minute, I quickly bought a rose but unfortunately couldn't buy any flowers for what I had planned. So what I did was I make these paper flowers and had them lead to the living room (I was dressed up very nicely too) and she found me with some romantic music playing on the stereo with that rose and a letter I wrote to her. We made up and danced. It was just something I thought of at the last minute. Now though, I know in my heart that I wasted a romantic idea because I was too blind to see her for what she really was and that she was using me. But that's ok, I'll just have to do something bigger should true love ever come my way! Thanks for listening, and sorry again lol! :vsign: |
@Burundo unfortunetly we had to break it off cuz of his mom. She dosnt like me and shw was threatning him. But It hurt so much and still does. I followed him one day after class only to find he was on the verge of tears but he wouldnt talk he just said "i got a bus to catch" The next day we tryed to talk after school (last day of school) and I just couldnt say anything i just kinda froze. I asked if he was gonna be ok and he said no. I turned to leave took like 5 steps he came up behind me hugged me and said bye have a good summer. and that was it. We talk on youtube and the most recent message i got was" I know how you can get over me. Stop talking to me and stop listening to songs that remind you of me" That just made me mad but sad ta the same time . Im sorry I just had to get ot out. -_- but yea any thoughts on that . BTW that was sweet of what you did I only hope you can find your true love. |
It may be hard at first but in time you will grow apart(obviously he has) and eventually forget him before finding someone better.Good luck
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on to the next one...quote:Jay-Z
go out and look past the moments and see whats realy happening....he's moved on and you should too.......it might take some time but look for the guy who's looking for you....you might think he is but a lil mama threats should'nt be enough from keeping feelings apart.....he could have just told his mother he was'nt talking to you anymore but he did'nt and who likes a mamas boy anyway :mad: .........if i were closer to you id take you out and show you a good time and show you what your missing(just a friendly thought).....if u can think of anyone who can,try to stick with them....not saying date them but go out and have a good time with people you enjoy to be with and forget about the mama's boy :cool:
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If only it was as easy as you sy but he hasnt moved on and neither have I . A mamas boy he may be but idk. I wish i could go out and forget but my dad dosnt trust me anymore. I lost his trust. so things are different at home. |
greate opinion about broken girls:)
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forget about all the guys and go party:cool:
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wow it's pretty messed up that I missed all of this!!!! I'm supposed to be a friend and all...I'm sorry this has happened to you, I truly am but love sucks and maybe we should all just be party animals and forget that it even exists!!!
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Nobora, did u break up again or u're just discussing ur first issue?
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Yea It did suck and its ok. @Sheemy no nothing has changed since last time we talked in the Pms |
I'm glad everything is ok though
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Yea things are better I dont feel depressed anymore I feel Happy~ latley . Summer vacation was just really bad for me but its all over now. and yes partying like animals is so much easier. |
LOL it really is...but in all seriousness it doesn't help at all. You'll just wake up in the morning hating yourself!!!
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True I did hate myself alot of the fact that I had lost him but now That I look back on it I see that I was really emotional and unstable |
So how do you feel nowdays about it all?
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I feel like I put up a fight after beating myself up and got my prize in the end. |
was it worth it?
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yea it was. |
awesome and great for you!!!! Happines is key in this life, and furthermore it's priceless!
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Yes except hapiness isnt always priceless~ see cuz of this i got grounded alot last year. my life was hell |
But it's better now
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Oh yea lots better |
LOL so hows the relationship going now?
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