[MissMisa]

Cheating is a cowards way out. If you have made a conscious decision to be unfaithful to your partner, you are NOT a victim. If you are so unhappy in your relationship, then end it. In the long run, it is kinder than just going off with someone else on a whim. Of course, everybody makes mistakes - honesty is the best policy in these cases. But with long running affairs, lies, and going behind peoples backs... it's just unkind and not needed.

I think the reasons people cheat once is mostly a mistake. Too much to drink, spur of the moment, 'human nature.' Maybe you could forgive a person for that, maybe you couldn't. But if it goes on longer and you are fully aware of what your doing, I think that's just nasty.