[Sangetsu]

Yokohama is an interesting place, not far from where I'm at. You should find plenty of things of interest to see or do.

It's true that Japan is a love-hate place for many foreigners who live and work here, though the people who hate living here are the kind that would typically be unhappy anywhere.

Many foreigners who come to live in Japan seem socially dysfunctional to a certain degree, and I often think that is one of the reasons they ended up in Japan. As a result, and as you have found, it's often hard to meet "normal" people.

You should take a Japanese language class at least once a week, and try to get a local girlfriend. Either of these things will widen your social network, and allow you to meet more people. Be careful with the girls, many foreigners have love-hate relationships with them as well.

If you are looking for things to see or do around Tokyo, PM me and I'll be happy to help.