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09-27-2008 02:02 PM |
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Originally Posted by SSJup81
(Post 595042)
For some people, it's just harder to do that, especially if you're just used of always being by yourself or entertaining yourself. For instance, I'm a bit shy. I'm not the type to usually approach people. I'm the type who prefers being approached (reassurance that I'm not bothersome to that person), unless I get a good vibe from said person and know the person somewhat. I grew up as an only child, and have always done things by myself and used of being by myself. In a way, you could say that I'm not as social as I should be.
I like getting to know people too, but it doesn't bother me if I don't. Now, if I'm in a whole other country, I'd probably go out of my way to make sure I get to know people since the people I do know (from home), wouldn't be around.
I think the main time I approach people on my own, is if it's a guy I'm interested in and would like his attention, but, as I pointed out, it's usually someone I've known for a while anyway, like say a coworker or classmate.
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Well I used to be the same. More because I was depressed and couldn't care less about making new friends etc. I was fine with what I had.
I changed though and realised I needed to fix myself. Secluding myself just made stuff worse cos I was working against my own personality.
As for approaching people I may have an interest in, I don't. I've never asked someone out because I thought they were good looking or something. Just don't have the drive to do that cos I know at the end of the day, I don't know them and it puts me off.
I tend to have relationships with people i've known for years.
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Originally Posted by EveV
(Post 595008)
I completely agree.
There is just sooo many types of people out there.
It makes life so much more exciting when you're trying to get to know all them.
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Yea I don't understand people who have 3 or 4 friends and think its fine to not be friendly with anyone else.
They're not depressed or anything, just.. boring. >.> |
