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EveV 09-27-2008 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by QuoyaNatsume (Post 595336)
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I'm still waiting to use my invitation EVELYN!!!! & your invitation is welcomed anytime jus so long as you call ahead of time;)

Lmfao.
Maybe after I get my house back you can chill with me in my new sexy room.
; )

mangafreak 09-27-2008 09:45 PM

i know I do...
 
Yeah, I pretty much act the same way here as i do at school or home (Manga=i love manga+Freak=I am exceptionally weird.) I can be moody and seem depressed sometimes, or preppy at others, but all in all, i'm the same.:marusmile:

SSJup81 09-27-2008 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by ivi0nk3y (Post 595102)
Well I used to be the same. More because I was depressed and couldn't care less about making new friends etc. I was fine with what I had.

Wow, totally different situation with me. I was never depressed or depressive. I was just used of being by myself because I grew up that way.
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As for approaching people I may have an interest in, I don't. I've never asked someone out because I thought they were good looking or something. Just don't have the drive to do that cos I know at the end of the day, I don't know them and it puts me off.
I tend to have relationships with people i've known for years.
I wasn't really referring to dating. This is just me in a general sense, and, ironically, I've always gotten along way better with guys than I have with girls. I could probably count on two or three fingers, how many "girlfriends" I've had in my life time. I like hanging around guys way more. Even online, seems that the majority of my AIM buddy list consists of guys. It didn't hit me until recently. The people I talk to on a semi-reg basis online (or when I actually run that thing) are guys.

As for approaching said guys, I know of them or knew of them or had already associated with them and just want to become friends with the guy or get his attention and be friends. If it goes past that, which it usually doesn't in my case, since I feel I'm a bit too tomboyish for it, then oh well, but I honestly haven't hung around many guys where I actually wanted to date them. As a matter of fact, a couple of weeks ago, I was invited to go bowling with a couple of friends. I'd consider them friends, even if we don't get to hang much. My friend invited her friend along and some of her coworkers. I was instantly drawn to him and his personality, and spent the majority of my time trying to talk and get along with him. I had a blast. I technically approached him. I'm not romantically interested in him, but his goofy personality and sense of humor was spot on.

It doesn't bother me not having a lot of friends to hang out with, just as long as I have somebody, because sometimes, I do get in my moods where I just don't feel like being bothered and staying in for the night. Coincidentally, this night is one of them. lol

emmygirl121 09-27-2008 10:20 PM

I am more understanding online i think,

I pick up more if you know what i mean

Pyro 09-27-2008 10:22 PM

I think I'm pretty much the same. I tend not to talk as much online as I do in real life. I read posts a lot more then posting.

CarleyGee 09-27-2008 10:30 PM

Online I have more time to think, so I'm more careful.

Aota 09-27-2008 10:31 PM

I'm actually a little shyer in person.

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At first, I guess... But when I really get comfortable talking to you face to face, I'm basically the same as online.

Oni 09-27-2008 10:43 PM

I'm really shy in person and don't talk nearly as much. Though I'm really out there when people start to get to know me (just ask the people I go to school with...)

ivi0nk3y 09-27-2008 11:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Bureda (Post 595503)
My personality is the same online and offline. My attitude however is nearly same, but the only difference is offline I tend to keep quiet, but get pissed off extremely easily, whereas oline I can take one or two shots more.

All, in all, I am what's on the tin. So if I was a product you'd be pretty satisfied.

So you're a tin of Ronseal in real life. Cool.

ivi0nk3y 09-27-2008 11:36 PM

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Originally Posted by SSJup81 (Post 595531)
Wow, totally different situation with me. I was never depressed or depressive.


Lol I was pretty unhappy cos of a few reasons. I had to get over those reasons to carry on with my life.

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Originally Posted by SSJup81 (Post 595531)
I was just used of being by myself because I grew up that way.I wasn't really referring to dating. This is just me in a general sense, and, ironically, I've always gotten along way better with guys than I have with girls. I could probably count on two or three fingers, how many "girlfriends" I've had in my life time. I like hanging around guys way more. Even online, seems that the majority of my AIM buddy list consists of guys. It didn't hit me until recently. The people I talk to on a semi-reg basis online (or when I actually run that thing) are guys.

Actually its funny, i'd say 80% of people on my msn list are female.. not cos I actively only talk to females but I just make friends easier with females.
I get on with both genders pretty well on and offline.

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Originally Posted by SSJup81 (Post 595531)
As for approaching said guys, I know of them or knew of them or had already associated with them and just want to become friends with the guy or get his attention and be friends. If it goes past that, which it usually doesn't in my case, since I feel I'm a bit too tomboyish for it, then oh well, but I honestly haven't hung around many guys where I actually wanted to date them. As a matter of fact, a couple of weeks ago, I was invited to go bowling with a couple of friends. I'd consider them friends, even if we don't get to hang much. My friend invited her friend along and some of her coworkers. I was instantly drawn to him and his personality, and spent the majority of my time trying to talk and get along with him. I had a blast. I technically approached him. I'm not romantically interested in him, but his goofy personality and sense of humor was spot on.

It doesn't bother me not having a lot of friends to hang out with, just as long as I have somebody, because sometimes, I do get in my moods where I just don't feel like being bothered and staying in for the night. Coincidentally, this night is one of them. lol

Do you feel like you're happy with your life then, all that being said?
What would you change.


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