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MissMisa 07-28-2009 11:56 PM
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Originally Posted by LuckyLuck (Post 753818)
I don't think it really matters what society you're in or what age group you are dealing with, if it's not Japan... dressing in Lolita, especially in the states is going to get you a few negative comments.

Many Lolita outfits are very skimpy or teasing..not only that but they stand out a lot, and so don't be surprised if you wear it and people around you lack respect, what outfit looks good in a photo isn't always acceptable in the real world.
No no noooo Lolita is not meant to be skimpy at all! It bans everything skimpy! You can't show cleavage, your skirt can't be too far up the knee, you can show too much chest or sleeves even. I think you've got the wrong idea about it for sure. It is meant to be refined and elegant.

And you'd still get negative comments in Japan if you aren't in Harajuku. Wearing this stuff in daily life in Japan would get you funny stares at the least.

keichichan 07-29-2009 12:00 AM
I don't really think it matters. >.> Wear what you want to wear and don''t care what others think! :D
Lolita is one of those looks that draw attention to the wearer especially since it isn't very popular in the states.
And if people tease you just ignore them. They're just jelous. ;]
*sigh* How nostalgic. XD

LuckyLuck 07-29-2009 12:17 AM
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Originally Posted by MissMisa (Post 753821)
No no noooo Lolita is not meant to be skimpy at all! It bans everything skimpy! You can't show cleavage, your skirt can't be too far up the knee, you can show too much chest or sleeves even. I think you've got the wrong idea about it for sure. It is meant to be refined and elegant.

And you'd still get negative comments in Japan if you aren't in Harajuku. Wearing this stuff in daily life in Japan would get you funny stares at the least.
Still, even the appropriate kind still portrays the sexual maid fantasy in away.
Lace, a cute skirt or dress... no matter how conservative you get with that it will still feed that fantasy. I'm not speaking as an on looker either I attempted Lolita for a friends party, it was fun to take pictures in but I wouldn't walk around in public with it.

MissMisa 07-29-2009 12:19 AM
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Originally Posted by LuckyLuck (Post 753835)
Still, even the appropriate kind still portrays the sexual maid fantasy in away.
Lace, a cute skirt or dress... no matter how conservative you get with that it will still feed that fantasy. I'm not speaking as an on looker either I attempted Lolita for a friends party, it was fun to take pictures in but I wouldn't walk around in public with it.
It really isn't supposed to be viewed in that way and there are no connotations with Sissy Maid or anything else >.<

I walk around in public wearing Lolita, and personally I've found that nobody cares. I get some funny looks, but it bothers my Mum more than it does me.

LuckyLuck 07-29-2009 12:22 AM
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Originally Posted by MissMisa (Post 753838)
It really isn't supposed to be viewed in that way and there are no connotations with Sissy Maid or anything else >.<

I walk around in public wearing Lolita, and personally I've found that nobody cares. I get some funny looks, but it bothers my Mum more than it does me.
It doesn't really matter how it's supposed to be viewed, it's how it is viewed to some.

Why does it bother her?

MissMisa 07-29-2009 12:31 AM
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Originally Posted by LuckyLuck (Post 753841)
It doesn't really matter how it's supposed to be viewed, it's how it is viewed to some.

Why does it bother her?
Because some people make malicious comments which I don't tend to hear but she does, it irritates her that people can be so rude to stare and stuff. I'm used to it though, but it annoys my mum.

LuckyLuck 07-29-2009 12:36 AM
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Originally Posted by MissMisa (Post 753846)
Because some people make malicious comments which I don't tend to hear but she does, it irritates her that people can be so rude to stare and stuff. I'm used to it though, but it annoys my mum.
Oh, I could understand why that would get to her. Regardless, I say if you're comfortable and happy in it why not wear it since you don't seemed to be phased even if they do say something, which is admirable. My post was aimed at people who wear it and act shocked at the reactions. I personally couldn't do it, I don't have that kind of confidence..Not saying I don't have confidence...but lol you get the point.

darksyndrem 07-29-2009 02:30 AM
If you want stares, try being a guy, wearing a skirt, and walking into a waffle house at 2am on a race night.....nuff said

bhl88 07-29-2009 07:33 PM
What about the people wearing "kodona"? Are they treated the same way?

MissMisa 07-29-2009 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted by bhl88 (Post 754116)
What about the people wearing "kodona"? Are they treated the same way?
They are probably more likely to get away with it, since it's more toned down. And since kodona uses short pants, it is a lot more practical in school and work.


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