NEED HELP FROM JAPANESE READER pleaseee
 

Hi everyone, i really do need help, i found this conversation [BELOW] in my girlfriend's account :mad: , named Yumi. I am Chinese and my girlfriend is Japanese, she has been talking to this guy forever. because of my inability to read Japanese word, i dont mind. But what i need to know are:
1. is she cheating on me?
2. Is the guy [Naota] a total "flirt"?
3. Can somebody translate this for me? I really appreciate your help and I believe this forums is the best!:)





Naota Takimoto 来年の夏かー。遠いな～。
まーそん時はいっぱい遊ぼうぜ。
全てふりじゃないよ
Anyway, I love u.
Yumi LOL!ショックのふりしてくれちゃってーありがとう！か� �いいねーｗ夢にでてきた？本当かよ?!ｗ今日本？私来年 の夏日本に帰る予定です！Takiさんいるかな？
Naota Takimoto ゆみちゃん、一週間前位夢に出てきたよ。やっぱ運命だ ね～。
っていうか彼氏いるね・・・。たきショック·
Yumi taki san genkiii?!
Naota Takimoto ユミちゃん、俺のためでしょ！ほんっと俺のこと愛して るね。
うん、俺も
Yumi taki san!
skype add shitayoo~!
hima attara hanasouu :)
Naota Takimoto はい、YUMIさんっ！！！
Yumi ハハハＴＡＫＩさんのことだから多分絶対近いうちシド ニーに来てそう！早くおいでーw.
Naota Takimoto やだYUMIちゃん来て。でも多分そのうちいく気が・・・� �
Yumi 2ヶ月も待てないねーだ！w　シドニーおいでよー！

I would say you have something to worry about.

O_O
if you wanna find out copy and paste into google translate...

That and Babelfish are useless.

i know. but. but most of the things that he wanted to know, like if he's gf/wife is cheating on him is translated in here i just wanted to be nosey and see the rest of the convo O_O
but yehh...

thanks for your help @onlybyron

she defend herself by saying that "JApanese culture do chat and make fun like that"? is that true Japs?

eeehhh don't do that D:
it's considered offensive to some people
although I don't really care, a lot of people on this forum do =/

^Even though maybe, .5% of JF is actually Japanese.
The chances of there being an older war veteran on here is so unlikely.

I agree, but the "real mods" don't (even though they don't even moderate anything).

I do have to admit though, the original poster seemed to have used it in a impolite way.

He did just find out about his Japanese gf cheating on him. I suppose we could've expected it. This should've been moved to the japanese language thread, but MMM apparently didn't notice it was in the General Discussion when he posted.

Well he should learn to satisfy his girlfriend before purposely spitting slurs at us.
And yes. Japanese girls do tend to flirt for fun, it's not exactly cheating.

what??for real?japanese girl do that for fun?

Naota Takimoto 来年の夏かー。遠いな～。

Next summer? That's a long ways off.

まーそん時はいっぱい遊ぼうぜ。

Let's do a lot of stuff together then.

全てふりじゃないよ
Anyway, I love u.

It's not all fake.

Yumi LOL!ショックのふりしてくれちゃってーありがとう！か� � �いいねーｗ夢にでてきた？本当かよ?!ｗ今日本？私来� �� の夏日本に帰る予定です！Takiさんいるかな？

Thanks for pretending you are in shock. That's cute. I was in your dream? Really? Are you in Japan now? I am supposed to go back to Japan next summer. Are you going to be there, Taki?


Naota Takimoto ゆみちゃん、一週間前位夢に出てきたよ。やっぱ運命だ ね～。
っていうか彼氏いるね・・・。たきショック·

Yumi, a week ago I had a dream about you. It must be fate. But you gave a boyfriend, right? I am in shock.

Yumi taki san genkiii?!

How are you Taki?

Naota Takimoto ユミちゃん、俺のためでしょ！ほんっと俺のこと愛して るね。
うん、俺も

You did that for me, Yumi? You really do love me.
You too.

Yumi taki san!
skype add shitayoo~!
hima attara hanasouu

Taki, I added Skype. If you have free time let's chat.

Naota Takimoto はい、YUMIさんっ！！！

Yes, Yumi!!!
Yumi ハハハＴＡＫＩさんのことだから多分絶対近いうちシド ニーに来てそう！早くおいでーw.

Ha ha ha, It's you, Taki so I bet you would come to Sydney! Hurry and come here.

Naota Takimoto やだYUMIちゃん来て。でも多分そのうちいく気が・・・� � �

No, you come here. But I could change my mind...

Yumi 2ヶ月も待てないねーだ！w　シドニーおいでよー！

I can't wait two months! Come to Sydney!

Yeah. Especially the Fobby ones. It's part of the whole cutsey look.
It's not like shes ever going to see the guy. It's just for fun.

I would be nervous if my girlfriend had over 800 friends of Facebook, a majority being guys.

If you look, the majority of younger asian girls that use facebook have that many friends. They just add random people. I have a few that added me that have actually maxed out their friend limit, thus making a second account. I don't think they should be thought of as unfaithful people.

Why would you be nervous? I have a lot of friends on Facebook, a lot of which are girls. Am I sleeping with all of them?

She is asking this guy to come visit her in Sydney.

Yeah but what's the reality of that?
I mean, really.

Anyways, here's a girl that added me that maxed out.


Seems like a normal thing with facebook Asian girls.

If she is happy in her relationship she doesn't need to chat with random guys on the Internet and invite them to come visit.

That really has nothing to do with having male friends on facebook....

It wouldn't bother you if your girlfriend had 500 guy friends on Facebook?

Not at all.....why would it?

There is obviously something missing in her relationship if she feels the need to chat up guys on the Internet.

"Chatting up" guys on the internet doesn't necessarily mean anything bad. This is a dumb argument.

well i would MIND, i have more than a thousand friends, not to boast, but im quite friendly with girls.. my girlfriend has 800ish friends, most of em are RANDOM PERSON..

@OSSAN: i thank you so much, i appreciate ur helppp,thankieess

now YUmi [my girlfriend] defend herself: "well, u know, Japanese do conversation like that and that is quite general"
IS THAT TRUE?

It would be one thing if they are just chatting, but they are making plans to meet next summer, and she is also inviting him to visit her in Sydney.

I would say that is not normal.

The conversation is backwards, the bottom is the oldest, the top the most recent.

I`m kind of undecided on whether it`s anything more than totally innocent flirting. Note that she HAS told the guy she has a boyfriend, and the whole thing is VERY heavy on joking/sarcasm. She`s laughing at him for the pretend shock about her having a boyfriend, which to me rings bells that it`s not serious. He responds that it`s not all pretend (a big *hint hint* type thing)...
I am curious what her response to that was... But really, I would not toss this in the cheating category. It`s a bunch of joking, really. If she were heading to Japan without her boyfriend, why tell someone she plans to cheat with that she has a boyfriend?

I am going to say 95% chance of just random joking flirty talk and nothing more.

She just may be flirting, but I don't think he is just flirting.

Yeah, but is the guy random or is it a friend from high school/college? I wouldn't care if a guy friend was going to fly into the very touristy area we live in and drop by to visit her.

The "I luv u" stuff is worrisome. The visiting the paradise-that-is-Sydney is not.

Are you seriously suggesting a woman cannot have male friends if she's not single?

I don't think its worrisome at all.
It's more like a girl having some fun with a gullible guy.

I absolutely agree with that.

She isn't saying "I bet you would like Sydney, you should come some time," she is saying she can't wait until next summer to see him, so he should come to Sydney.

I seriously said nothing remotely similar to that statement.

So you wouldn't mind if your girlfriend is inviting guys to come visit and making plans to meet them when she goes back to her home country for the summer?

Well the chances of her actually going to meet this guy is so highly unlikely. Especially if she has a bunch of other male friends on facebook.
For all we know she could say that to everyone, just to get a bit of attention.
But yes, it would bother me. Although, I'd never date a girl like that in the first place. Girl's that want attention like that really aren't meant to be in relationships.

I think you hit the nail on the head right there.

The real question is whether or not it bothers the OP. I would be bothered if my girlfriend was saying "I love you" to some random guy that I've never met, because I don't regard that as flirting at all. Even if it was flirting, I don't want my girl flirting with other guys anyways.

She isn`t the one dropping love into the conversation though. He mentions it twice, but she doesn`t at all.
To me, it reads like she is laughing at him and just playing around. Especially with the ふり talk and the かわいいねーw bit.

Whenever it seems to get too iffy, she cuts off the conversation from what I can tell...