Anyone disappointed when they got to Japan?
 

Hello, first off let me say that I am new to this website. I stumbled upon it the other day while researching about various jobs that I can get in Japan.

Well, I've been reading a lot of the threads in this website and I can't help but think that some people are setting themselves up for disappointment. I never realized how popular of a destination Japan seems to be getting among younger people. The reason I am bringing up this topic is because I see so many people saying they want to move to Japan because they like such and such anime or USA is such a bad country. It just seems to me that a lot of the people these days wanting to move to Japan have the most ridiculous reasons.

So I'm curious to find out if anyone was actually disappointed when they got to Japan? Please I just want to hear from anyone who was just slightly disappointed or didn't enjoy their time there and why.

Hey welcome to JF.

I am interested in travelling to Japan and possibly working there. but thats about it. I love my country i wouldnt leave permenantly.

Yeah but most of them are probably no older than 16. ><

I'm pretty much the same as JoshAussie. I'd like to move there someday, and live there for a while, but I don't want to leave my home country entirely or give up citizenship or anything like that like some of the people on here go on about wanting to do. To me, it just doesn't seem practical.

It seems like for the majority, being in Japan on a visa or permanent residency isn't good enough. They have to have citizenship. I don't see what the big deal is as long as you can legally live and work.

IMO though I doubt the majority of the people on this forum will ever visit Japan. The interest will either fade or some other reason will prevent them from visiting. Or the ones that want to move, reality will set in.

I don't want to live there. I'd like to visit for a holiday, but apart from that I have zero interest in being away from my family and friends. I don't want to work there either really, I was just curious if my job prospects would be better over there. Seems not, so there is really no point. I like Japan, but I like to look at things with a more realistic [if somewhat, pessimistic] view.

First off: welcome.

When I went to Japan for my first (and only) time three years ago I was anything but disappointed. But I didn't have any preconceptions about it being some kind of utopia dreamland, I guess I've just always regarded it as "very different".

My reasons were just to go out and see some of the world, after finishing highschool (lotsa people, if not most, here take a year off between highschool and univ. That is, if they go to univ.). With that mindset, it's hard to get disappointed.

I wouldn't ever want to give up my swedish citizenship. But I do however expect to some day move to another country for work, if not for life than atleast for several years. I second the opinion that I don't care about being a citizen in said country, as long as I can stay and work.

I lived there just over three years and I was not dissapointed. I took the good and the bad, explored it and had a great time. There were some difficult times, but there were some when I lived back home, too.

I knew some people who had a really rough time there. But that wasn't dissapointment as much as mental illness.

If you keep an open mind you'll enjoy it all. also, when you travel to an exotic place your walking on air, high on life. Everything is new and different and one learns new things all day. It's all exciting.

When I was in elementary school, my teacher showed us some souvenirs and pictures which she had brought from Japan after spending her vacation there. I found the items interesting, and I especially liked the movie. But my new-found interest in Japan was no greater than my interest in other things, and before long, I forgot about it.

My interest was rekindled during high school, when I studied kendo at a nearby martial arts school. Part of the training required practice in basic Japanese manners and customs, as well as a little vocabulary. I practiced for 4 years, and then moved on to other things.

My first visit to Japan was completely impulsive. A friend of mine had recently moved there, and invited me to visit. I had some vacation time available, and I wanted to try someplace new. Thinking about Japan brought back some of the dreams I had of the country when I was in high school. I booked the trip.

Japan was nothing like I imagined it to be, not that I had many preconceptions. Something about it appealed to my inner nature, and it was during the first hour of that visit that I began considering the possibility of living and working in Japan.

Returning home, I began to research what jobs were available, and which of them I would be most qualified for. Having a liberal arts degree in America is not of much benefit when it comes to finding a real job. A degree in English Literature doesn't qualify you for much more than being a librarian. But teaching English in Japan is an industry, and a degree in anything with the words "English" on it will open doors.

I traveled to Japan twice more to visit my friend, and I traveled around Japan looking as objectively at things as I could. Moving to another country is an important decision, and I wanted to make sure that it was a decision I wouldn't regret.

I made my decision, and returned home to prepare. I sold my car, and put the rest of my things up for sale on Ebay. I sold my house, but came away with nothing, as I had recently refinanced it, and had no equity in it. I was lucky that I got rid of it when I did, considering the real estate situation in America right now.

During this process, I applied online to one of the large Japanese language schools that hire from overseas. I received an immediate response, and after a brief telephone interview I was invited to attend a person to person interview.

I had no difficulties with the interview. I was offered the job, which I accepted, and the company began the visa paperwork. My COE came quickly, and with it arrived a one-way plane ticket to Japan.

After arriving, I was given a few days to settle down and get over the jet lag. Then I attended a too-short training program, and then I was sent to the city where I was to work. I was given a rather nice (if a little small) apartment which was walking distance from my school.

The school was much what I expected it would be; small, fairly new, and well equipped. The Japanese staff at the school were friendly and supportive. The fact that I was older than them seemed to impress them a little. Some people have a little difficulty calling a person with no experience fresh out of university "sensei".

My students were (and are) an interesting mix of people from all walks of life. They vary greatly. My youngest student is a 2 year old girl, the oldest is a retired tractor-maker who is in his mid 60's. A surprising number of my students are teachers themselves. One is a preschool teacher, another teaches junior high, and two are university professors.

My new city was pleasant enough. It was small by Japanese standards, but not that small. There were a variety of stores and shops, large and small. Everything was conveniently located. I had brought a new notebook computer with me, and I used it to print out maps of the city and the surrounding area, which I began to explore by bicycle.

My first week in Japan was a little strange. In a place with few to no other foreigners, I felt quite self conscious. I received an extra look from time to time from people, but for the most part I was treated no differently than anyone else.

I had spent the previous year studying Japanese part-time. I arrived with about a JLPT level 4 knowledge of the language and writing. Not very much, but enough to get around. I wasn't very comfortable speaking at first, but most Japanese appreciate any effort a foreigner makes to learn their language. Speaking a few words of poor Japanese is a quick way to make a Japanese person smile.

Pay as an English teacher is not particularly bad. On average, it is higher than what most recent college grads in Japan make. Of all the staff at my school, I was the most highly paid, I earned about 25% more than the school's manager, and I did less than half as much work as he did.

I enjoy Japanese culture very much. Last week I participated in the local Bon festival, and last month I went to the big hanabi festival at Asakusa in Tokyo. I've visited all of the museums and historical sites that I've come across, and I've begun studying Japanese history in addition to the language, and so far have enjoyed doing it.

I've never been a fan of anime or Japanese fashion. In a fashion sense, the only people more backward than the Japanese are perhaps the Russians. I'm not so much talking about the kids who hang out at Harajuku; you'd understand if you watched Japanese television. People on news and talk shows often dress in styles that make Bozo the Clown look conservative. I sometimes think that Japan has raided every article of clothing it can find from American thrift stores for it's television celebrities.

But I digress. So far, I have no regrets about my decision to move to Japan. I still teach English, and it's a profession which I enjoy. I have little to complain of other than train delays caused by the occasional suicide, and the high price of watermelons.

I've been to Japan twice and the only disappointment I feel is when I get back to the States and start thinking about the stuff I just couldn't find the time to do and start having to think about going back to work.

Oh, maybe when I can't find a western style toilet that's disappointing.

In the end, most of the people here will never actually go to Japan.

That's what I said :p

That's quiet the story. Glad to know everything turned out well.
As for me I doubt I'll ever give up my British Citizenship.

This country is well balanced in every away. Crime is an issue in every large city. As for me I feel like I belong here. I'm used to everything and no matter how awesome Japan may sound. I'd never give up my Britishness.;>

As Paul said, when you live there long term, you will of course have ups and downs, good days and bad, same as you would living back home. But I'm not disappointed at all that I went, I had a great time overall, and it was an amazing, life-changing experience.

Also, unlike Sangetsu, I went over with very little experience or knowledge of what I was getting into. It was 12 years ago when I went to Japan... anime and manga was not nearly as common or popular in the US as it today. (You never saw it in US bookstores back then, and only a few manga were just starting to be translated by companies like Viz. (Ranma 1/2, Appleseed, etc)

I had graduated from university and then spent a couple more years helping my dad in his cabinet shop before he retired. I'd never had the money to move out of my parents' home, much less travel overseas, and I really wanted to see the world a bit. I wasn't focused on Japan at all... in fact, Europe was my 1st choice. But a former JET had spoken at my university when I was there, talking about the program, and I remembered what a great impression I'd had. I looked into teaching English overseas programs around the world, and JET/Japan was by far the largest and best at the time, so I applied. I was lucky enough to be accepted.

I didn't speak any Japanese besides Arigato, and growing up in a small rural city, I'd hardly ever eaten Japanese food in my life (and that wasn't anything like the real stuff anyway). So communication and finding food I could eat were my 2 biggest worries upon going to Japan, but both turned out ok, pretty much. I learned some basic survival Japanese while I was there (though never enough to have real, serious conversations on things, and hardly any Kanji, which eventually did bug me somewhat) and I found plenty of food I liked (and also became a pretty good cook myself). I also bought a ton of Manga while I was there, and shipped it home (1600 books, nearly all of which were unknown in the US at the time. Now, a decade later, more and more of it is showing up in translated form, but the great majority of the collection still has never been translated to English yet.)

i just came back from Tokyo and honestly i have to say that thats the place to be for me. I've meet wonderfull ppl there and i have the best time ever ;] Most of all i fall in love with japan not because of anime or manga culture, its the people there which makes that place so wonderfull. I know that most of your co-workers (in japanese work) will not tell you that they dont like you, they will even invite you for their party. But if u r lucky enogh to make friends there thats nothing more u need ;] Oh and i love peace and calm of smaller places outside of Tokyo and the fact that all the places in Japan are relatively close to each other :D I'm goin back there in december for 2-3 months. But surely i will try to find a job and settle down there. ;]

The alien elements are always an appealing factor to the foreigner traveling or wishing to travel to Japan.

I've been living in Japan for about a year now and I do like it a lot. But there have been many hardships in my life during my stay. (in particular, battling my inner demons.)

The glamorous cosmetic layers of this country are pealed away the deeper you dig into Japan's culture. I have heard many other foreigners do nothing but complain about the culture after mingling with it for a little while. There are many great and wonderful people here in Japan, but if you stay here long enough, you will defiantly witness many forms of racism. If you plan on ever working in this country, always remember; you will NEVER be Japanese.

That aside, I love Japan! Also, this is my first time as well as my first post on this forum. Nice to meet you all!

I've been wanting to go to Japan for a while now, but only until recently have I looked into it more seriously.

I love the thrill and adventure of something new, and after living in So Cal for 21 years of my life, I desperatly need it.

Ashamed of myself quite a bit, I've been looking at Japan through rose colored glasses. When reality sunk in, yeah I was a bit disappointed, but mostly in myself for a unrealistic vision of a country I've yet to visit.

Now that reality's sunk in, and I've learned and thought more about the culture as a whole, I'm more excited to go there than I've ever been.

Just gotta' have an open mind is all; after all, you're the foreigner there, regardless of whatever foreign country you visit.This too, it hits a lot of people hard to know that no matter how hard they try, they'll always be considered an outsider. Of course, that's just generally speaking; I can imagine that on a personal level with friends you make, stuff like that doesn't matter too much.

Welcome!

Good post, but I just wanted to say, as a foreigner you really aren't japanese. So why would you want to try and become something you're really not?:) If I were to live and work in Japan (which I'm not sure I want), I would be perfectly fine with always being a swedish guy living in an foreign country. I don't get this whole craze for total assimilation.

Oh and this was not "aimed" at you really, so don't think it :) It was just that you brought that up.

Are lots of people disappointed? Yes. But you won`t find them hanging around places like this unless they`re here to bash Japan. Most people on this site are dreamers who see Japan as the embodiment of their dreams... Which is fine, I suppose, as long as they never come over here.

When I first came over here more than 10 years ago - I wasn`t disappointed. But then again, at the time there wasn`t a whole lot out there to inflate dreams and visions of Japan. I think my expectations were pretty realistic, and while they may not have always been spot on they were never particularly fantastical.

Obviously it was good enough to keep me here and lead me to decide to spend the rest of my life in the country.

There are far too many people out there who are depressed in their lives, and who see Japan as a convenient exit. There are also a lot of people who see Japan as the fulfillment of their dreams - most of which are rather childish and mundane. (Watching anime all day, playing Japanese video games before anyone else they know, etc etc.)
The thing is, even if you come to Japan your life is still your life. It doesn`t erase the past. It just changes your surroundings... And if you`re the type of person to become depressed or stressed easily - moving to a foreign country isn`t going to magically make those problems go away. You`re still going to be depressed, just in different surroundings with new stresses. I think that turns a lot of people against Japan. They see it as a life cure-all, when it`s just a location. You still have to fix your life with your own effort.

All that said - I`ve never been happier than I am here. I left a life that I was very unhappy with, and changed both location and my own thinking (in other words, I grew up) and am now leading the life I want to lead. As a responsible adult, with all the things that entails. Moving to Japan doesn`t grant you the ability to have an eternal childhood, as many people seem to think.

I am also one of those people who actually wants to obtain Japanese citizenship. Not for some immature dream of "becoming Japanese" - but because if I`m going to spend the rest of my life here, and raise my children here, I want to have a legal say. I want to be able to vote. I want to be able to hold public office (however minor) should I feel the desire. Those things many people cannot imagine giving up their citizenship because of are the same things that push me to want to have Japanese citizenship. This *is* my home, and there is no reason I should not be able to have a say. The wall there is citizenship.

I thank you both for your optimism.:p

Assuming you are being sarcastic, I don't think it's too much to say on a thread covering this exact topic.

I was being more playful than sarcastic. I agree with you and rina, though. Not all of us will be able to go to Japan someday. It's a realistic way of looking at it.

IMO, this should be common sense.

Same here, but you'd be amazed at how uncommon sense common sense is. You tell someone you might run into some racial tension or culture shock over there, they're approaching everyone with a 10 foot skepticism pole.

Nah. I wasn't dissappointed. It was a great vacation. I was there for about 2 weeks in June and it was a lot of fun. Of course, it was a vacation and I didn't have to work. I stayed in nice hotels with room service and went site seeing all day...

I see nothing wrong with you wanting citizenship. I mean, like you said, your life is in Japan and why shouldn't you have a legal say in the country of your home. I was talking about those who don't want to come on a visa because it's not good enough for them. Please don't think I was including you.

Though Japan is the country of most of my ancestor's, I do not feel like living there. I have no friends there, I did not go to school there, and the family that lives in Japan, I do not know well. Possibly, I may move to Japan but even though the US is not the best country, it is alright. I may go there for vacation, or if my grandmother sends me(._. she wants to send me to go live with her niece so I can have my Japanese speaking skill be better...). But other then that, I am perfectly fine in Hawaii.

Hawaii has enough Japanese culture anyway. xD

How did you land in Kyoto?

LMAO parachute?

You may not be referring to me, but it`s a sentiment I hear enough to be a bit defensive when the subject comes up...
No, defensive isn`t quite the right word. Exasperated is more accurate.　There are countless people who feel that even in my situation, there is nothing that could justify giving up US citizenship for that of Japan.

Some people (outside Japan) refer to 関西空港 as 京都空港. There are even talks of changing it`s name to such.

Of course. :cool:

Well that's a bit ridiculous i would think. If you live in Japan with no desire or plans of ever returning to the US, what exactly would it benefit you to keep it? I understand the feeling though. I'm basically going through the same thing right now. I'm a dual national with my 22nd birthday coming up and legally I have to pick one or the other. People think I'm crazy when they hear my intentions of giving up my US citizenship.

What?!?! Weird. This is the first time I've heard it called anything but 関西空港.

Apparently Kyoto rings a lot more bells with foreigners than Kansai.

Kansai International Airport is nowhere near Kyoto, so I can't imagine it would be named that. And I have never heard that reference before...though I do not live in Japan...

I lived near it, flew in and out of it several times, and never once heard it called Kyoto Airport. It's the Kansai International Airport.

if someone was born in US but has japanese blood, is dual citizen ship possible? if not, is it ever possible.

sorry to go off topic, but to keep it back on topic, im going to japan this winter and ill let you know if im dissapointed or not. hha

If you're born in the US you have 3 months to put in the request for Japanese citizenship. If born in Japan you have till your 18th birthday. And it's not Japanese blood that matters. It's whether one of your parents have Japanese citizenship or not.

ETA: Oh and you must pick one or the other by your 22nd birthday.

It is indeed - but every once in a while some tourism group talks about changing it`s name or at least it`s "unofficial" name to Kyoto International Airport. It pops up in the news every once in a while.　I don`t think anyone ever takes it seriously, and I seriously doubt they`d ever actually change it. But it seems like whenever there are figures pointing out more people flying into some other airport, they say "Well, foreigners don`t know what Kansai is! They`d fly in here more if it had a more familiar name. Most people go from there to Kyoto, so that would be more appealing for tourists."