Oh, that's exciting. :/ I hope that's not a popular view of American women.

You're right, I noticed that thing about voice pitch too. I was a little younger, so my voice was naturally a little squeaky. I got called cute a few times for it. I'm definitely going back with the deepest voice I can manage, though. Do you think that would make people think I'm "one of the guys"?

You know, I heard this from others, but in my schools there doesn't seem to be such a barrier between the sexes.

In fact, I think when I constantly have to tell a pair of students to be quiet, it's almost always a boy-girl pair.

And I find students in general, even with each other, and even with me are far touchier than American teens. I now regularly use my students as arm rests, regardless of whether it is a boy or a girl, because they seem to find it hilarious when I do it. The fact that it is clearly okay is something that was very hard for me to grasp at first.

I'm more worried about going back to America and being weirded out by students "frigidness" if I teach there. Things I think would clearly get me slapped with sexual harassment in the States, and would have never thought of doing to/with my students before coming here, have now become routine and normal. Obviously, it's important to note that while I have great affection for my students, there's nothing beyond that.

Oh, and an addition to the topic: Japanese people talk in elevators.

I can't do it. Freaks me out.

I often physically move my students around, for example when putting them into groups. I wouldn't dream of doing that back home. The idea of physically dragging British college students is just surreal.

Another thing: I just got a haircut and the guy cutting it starting trying to tell me about how poorly endowed he is. My Japanese isn't great so it required some imaginative gestures for me to understand! I'm not sure that would happen at home. It's happened a few times now in Japan and my Japanese doesn't stretch to "it's what you do with it that counts" etc. I just nod sympathetically.

I think you'll just have to work really hard on being generally unattractive. Talk in a deep voice and blow your nose loudly and regularly. That'll scare off any unwanted suitors!

lol okay, I'll keep that in mind because I'd like guy friends.

What IS it with that? I didn't get it anywhere near so much as others, but yeah. Every now and then, Boom! Hands out of ~nowhere~.

Especially creepy when it's old ladies (kimono-fitting, a much more alarming experience than it should be); although that did allow us to determine over time that the universal sound effect for boobs is 'buh-boing!"

And maybe it was just the people at my uni, but a lot of boy-to-boy spanking. Make of that what you will.

Does anyone know if Japanese teachers (and their boobs!) are treated the same way? The Japanese teachers I've met have all be quite prim and proper so it's hard to imagine it.

I don't know about women, but I've read blog with a male teacher who described kids making a game out of who could grab his ding-dong the most during the day. It was pretty funny to read, but I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

Wow i learned things i never knew before

HAHAHA! :D :p :rolleyes: was laughing so hard after reading that...