[quote=Odin;430873]Hmmm, man has struggled with that question for an eternity. It's a bit like asking why we exist. Maybe it's not the best definition, but somebody once told me, "When you love someone, you have their best interests in mind rather than your own. You expect nothing in return from them, and you love them unconditionally."

but every couple expects soemthing from the other, its the adult way of thinking, you give, you take...she/he gives and takes, and you guys talk ALOT and hopefully it works out. Unconditional doesn't even begin to mean anything except in the case of parent- child relationship, in which case one gives NOTHING and the other just gives...

the question isn't what are you doing...its why?

Only she knows those answers.
The bigger question is why does it matter to you, me, or anyone else?

You sound angry because you might not be getting anything but my love for my husband is real I just wanted to know what society felt about it. I am not someone to fall for angery young men who would rather yell at you and then sit on their butts while I make their dinner and clean their house. You better be helpful. Because my marriage is a partnership and me and my husband are poor with little money but that does not bother me.

He found me on myspace and then we started dating that is all you need to know. I feel in love with him and dropped out of school to be his wife. We had been dating from April 2007 to September 24 and then he asked me to marry him within that time frame.

I have experienced relationships with women both older and younger than I. The first, the woman was 14 years older, and the second was 13 years younger. The important thing is compatability. You must both enjoy alot of the same things together like soul mates. Unfortunately, I am still searching, but age is not as important as being compatable.

66yr old found you on myspace lol :eek:

wtf - a 66year old on myspace ?????????:eek: :eek:

personaly i dont care if you married a 66 yr old - i know one thing something will definitrly ne missin out of your relationship - and i bet you have never felt what it is !! :D :D :D

Older and younger person getting married? Well for me is ok, (seeing gap between Hyde’s age and mine xD ) Love is something that can not be maping. It’s not matter of age or look, it’s like conversation between your heart and his/her heart that get click. When you fall in love it’s like you close your eyes, shut your mouth and ears, your feeling plays the entire role of the love story.
In loving dont pay attention to what people say, they dont feel the same like you do to him, they dont feel the same chemistry like you do. It’s you who decide what best for your heart.
You may hear their suggestion, people around you, but who implement it, who feel it is you, yourself.

damn...that's a short piece of time, but whatever...its your life ne...hope its fun and rewarding...

to some degree, i have to agree...when he's 90, if he reaches 90 (most guys die before 85 yrs. old), you will have just passed 45 becoming 46... you understand what I'm saying?