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cassiechan 06-19-2008 04:27 PM

Do you belive in real Love? ...
 
~Well i just wanted to know if you belive in real love. And if yes, what does love mean to you? how do you feel when you're in love?
For me love means something...which you can't explain in words. If you're in love you can't concentrate on other things but always have to think about the person you're in love with...but it's a great feeling...well for me..

Ito 06-19-2008 04:38 PM

Well i kind of belive in love but i think is hard to find a good boyfriend.
but i still hope to find someone special.

I have been in bad relationship before and im more garded around guys then i was younger. Maybe im a bit afraid to be hurt again.
but i dont regret taking time from dating guys and getting more selfconfidence.

And i think also its good not to hunt guys becouse u are feeling lonley then u might just pick a guy becouse of that feeling.

About love u learn from experiance to see what guys only are after sex and what guys really care about you.

Love is a feeling u get when u care for someone but if u get betrade then your feeling will change maybe hatred instead of Love.
thats what i think anyways. Hugs Ito

cassiechan 06-19-2008 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Ito (Post 517467)
Well i kind of belive in love but i think is hard to find a good boyfriend.
but i still hope to find someone special.

I have been in bad relationship before and im more garded around guys then i was younger. Maybe im a bit afraid to be hurt again.
but i dont regret taking time from dating guys and getting more selfconfidence.

And i think also its good not to hunt guys becouse u are feeling lonley then u might just pick a guy becouse of that feeling.

About love u learn from experiance to see what guys only are after sex and what guys really care about you.

Love is a feeling u get when u care for someone but if u get betrade then your feeling will change maybe hatred instead of Love.
thats what i think anyways. Hugs Ito


~yeah sometimes love can get a bit stressy...and it may hurt you a lot. That's what I am afraid of.

Ito 06-19-2008 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by cassiechan (Post 517469)
~yeah sometimes love can get a bit stressy...and it may hurt you a lot. That's what I am afraid of.

yeah but dont worry to much. but if u fall in love then think if hes the person you think he is and it will help a bit. becouse sometimes love can make u blind.

zachart 06-19-2008 06:35 PM

from my experiance it really has never happened to me... but it really dependes...

Tyrien 06-19-2008 06:44 PM

I don't just believe. I know. :/

clairebear 06-19-2008 07:10 PM

Yep. Of course it exists.
Theres people out there who have been married to the same person for 50 years. o.o

MarkDuff 06-19-2008 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Tyrien (Post 517583)
I don't just believe. I know. :/

Same here :) :) :vsign:

strawberryshinya 06-19-2008 08:07 PM

i think true love used to be real. but in our day and age...it turned into more of a myth....sorry tis what i believe

cassiechan 06-20-2008 11:40 AM

~Call me an old-fashioned romantic, but I believe there's at least one person for every one in this rotten world .... :)

Acidreptile 06-20-2008 11:45 AM

Not really.

It would be like believing elves or the Easter Bunny or anything like that.

cassiechan 06-20-2008 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Acidreptile (Post 518057)
Not really.

It would be like believing elves or the Easter Bunny or anything like that.


~ XD ... okay

Kayci 06-20-2008 01:13 PM

I believe in it, though most people say I shouldn't.

But it's not about believing, it's about accepting it's existence. :]
Some people choose not to, for any number of reasons, but it doesn't mean it doesn't exist for others.

cassiechan 06-20-2008 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Kayci (Post 518069)
I believe in it, though most people say I shouldn't.

But it's not about believing, it's about accepting it's existence. :]
Some people choose not to, for any number of reasons, but it doesn't mean it doesn't exist for others.


~Wow...i never thaught this way... "it's about accepting it's existence" this is true...! =D

Acidreptile 06-20-2008 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by cassiechan (Post 518077)

~Wow...i never thaught this way... "it's about accepting it's existence" this is true...! =D

Everyone I know accepts the supposed existence of Love.And it seens like most of the people also do.It seens to be much more difficult to find anyone that accepts that it actually does not exists.

Most of the things that we consider reality are nothing but shadows from our minds and souls.Everything is too subjective.

MissMisa 06-20-2008 02:01 PM

I believe in it. There are some people you just have an instant connection with, and love is one of them you generally only find with one person. Love seems to be a word for all the things you feel when you first find someone who you like very deeply. But there is no real explaination for it.

I think the whole ' it's all science and it wears off within a year ' stuff is a load of crap to be honest. That's just my opinion.

pumpum 06-22-2008 06:34 AM

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Originally Posted by MissMisa (Post 518086)
I believe in it. There are some people you just have an instant connection with, and love is one of them you generally only find with one person. Love seems to be a word for all the things you feel when you first find someone who you like very deeply. But there is no real explaination for it.

I think the whole ' it's all science and it wears off within a year ' stuff is a load of crap to be honest. That's just my opinion.

I AGREE !! its been two years for me now and i still fucking absolutely love KFC ZINGERBURGERS !! MMMMMMMMMMMMMM :D

Paul11 06-22-2008 07:41 AM

Of course love exists. But it's not always the roller-coaster to the moon feeling. that super romantic part often subsides into something more subtle, genuine, and mature. If you're looking for the thing that zaps you and sends you hurttling through space, you might not recognize the real subtle love when it hits you. that stuff is often in movies and t.v. In real life, that jet-pack love is really passion expressed in a physical sense.

Some people also say, "Love and relationships take a lot of work." well, only if you're with the wrong person. People are poor at finding a mate. If you're with the right person, it's very easy. You just like to be together and forgive the human element in a person. Love, relationships, marriage all need mucgh deeper consideration than "am I attracted to the person" and "is there passion?" Can you see yourself with that person at 70 years old, sitting in a rocker together and enjoying each other's company? Is your relationship appropriate for the community (it's not just about you, but your families and people around you), is the person going to spend all your money and keep the house a mess? Will there be clashes over philisophical or religeous points of view?

when you're young, love is a passionate stirring to procreate and becomes an unrelenting force capable of making or breaking people. that's why your folks tell you to slow down. Take the long view.

MissMisa 06-22-2008 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by pumpum (Post 519426)
I AGREE !! its been two years for me now and i still fucking absolutely love KFC ZINGERBURGERS !! MMMMMMMMMMMMMM :D

Lmfao Pumpum xD

Suki 06-23-2008 12:03 AM

Sure do. No doubt it's got to be the best feeling ever, knowing you've found it I mean.

Hip 06-25-2008 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by strawberryshinya (Post 517683)
i think true love used to be real. but in our day and age...it turned into more of a myth....sorry tis what i believe

More like lust. People are with one another to get laid now a days. No one is with someone because they feel with their hearts...Instead they think with what's in their pants. Yes ladies, you are guilty of it too.

It use to seem like everyone called men pigs..But with how the generations are progressing, women are easily gaining this title as well.

I believe it exists within the believers. But it's hard for a lot of people to believe that don't grow up with the idea that love exists. So many adults who are scorned by love, sadly tell their children it doesn't exist or they hint and show it doesn't un cruel ways. Then you have movies, music videos and books that speak of lust and how love is just a dream or metaphor for not wanting to be lonely. i guess you can say most of society has been brainwashed to believe that love is only in our imaginations...But if two people imagine it and they meet XD then that's magical

In a way..true love is dying..But it's more rare when it comes along, so it means more to whoever has it.

Though, I am told that I am a hopeless romantic x.x *sigh*

SweetEdward 06-25-2008 06:26 AM

Yes and No.
Love means something immortal that lasts for an eternity.
When I'm in love I feel happy and pleasant like im on cloud 9

chibichick83 09-11-2008 12:05 PM

I've always believed in real love, nothing more and nothing less but the 100% official real thing :)

And I am most definately in a real love relationship with a special someone nowadays, more so than what I ever have truly been before :)

Bureda 09-11-2008 06:25 PM

No, i don't...!

kaelazors 09-11-2008 06:58 PM

i believe in love, and when i'm in love it's like i give my all to that person. i don't really know how to explain it hahaha but it's been a while since i've been in love

Salvanas 09-11-2008 07:28 PM

No I don't.

mangapunkrocker 09-11-2008 07:31 PM

NO! I don't belive in love....love is just a fairy tale that people make up to make people in lust feel better about what they're doing....

zoneoni 09-11-2008 07:45 PM

Sure why not?
It could be worse....

Bureda 09-11-2008 07:51 PM

This is necessary:

Quote:

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
Oh, baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

What is love
Yeah

Oh, I don't know why you're not there
I give you my love, but you don't care
So what is right and what is wrong
Gimme a sign

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh
Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh

Oh, I don't know, what can I do
What else can I say, it's up to you
I know we're one, just me and you
I can't go on

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh
Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh

What is love, oooh, oooh, oooh
What is love, oooh, oooh, oooh

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

Don't hurt me
Don't hurt me

I want no other, no other lover
This is your life, our time
When we are together, I need you forever
Is it love

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more (oooh, oooh)

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more (oooh, oooh)

What is love?

Lionshead 09-11-2008 07:54 PM

I dont have it, doesn't make it not exist. I believe in love, it's just that not everyone finds it.

Thunda 09-11-2008 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by kaelazors (Post 582196)
when i'm in love it's like i give my all to that person.

so you have been in real love before. good.

zoneoni 09-11-2008 08:18 PM

Love is a many splendored thing....


ALL YOU NEED IS LOOOVEEE, ALL YOU NEED IS LOOOUUUAAHHHVVEEE!!

(ROFL)

kaelazors 09-11-2008 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Thunda (Post 582306)
so you have been in real love before. good.

yeah before.. not currently though *shrugs*

mangafreak 09-11-2008 08:40 PM

Yes!
 
Love exists! It may be confusing, and will probably never come at the time you want it to, but once youv'e found the right person, you just know! Theres a reason everyone wants it so much!:rheart:

Thunda 09-11-2008 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by kaelazors (Post 582353)
yeah before.. not currently though *shrugs*

Things come with me....well. At least I hope so.

Aota 09-11-2008 09:08 PM

Sure. Question is, when does it happen?

Uriko 09-11-2008 09:10 PM

yes. i love chocolate with real love.

Bureda 09-11-2008 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Uriko (Post 582400)
yes. i love chocolate with real love.

You dirty girl!

Uriko 09-11-2008 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Bureda (Post 582403)
You dirty girl!

aw bureda-kun you know "chocolate" is my pet name for you..!

CarleyGee 09-11-2008 09:20 PM

my parents are still in love. extremley.
so yes, i do ^_^


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