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need a little help in love
how do i become the guy that gets the girl??
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- Get healthy
- Get out some more - Get a sense of humour - Have confidence |
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really not much more beyond that eh? |
confidence is key
and what girl can resist good posture? lol |
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too find just the right girl.... and that pretty much wraps it up i guess xD ne? |
Yup, luck is always a key, but people cannot rely on that too often, its why people need to fix up, lol.
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The guy that gets all the ladies does't necessarily have to be a love expert.
Advice: make yourself look hot. |
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'cause you don't wanna act like someone else, get tired of acting sometime after you get the girl, & then she won't even know who the hell you are. |
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Be Rich LOL just joking
although it does seem to help |
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yes... that it does ^^ |
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help in love
i always be myself
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need some help
my one problem is all the girls i know and at school are only into wanna be's with piercings and tattoos .
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Girls these days really have weird tastes. They are wasting their beauty by hanging out with emo guys or by joining fraternities and gangs.
In my opinion, all you need is confidence, talk to girls you like, make as many friends as possible, girls like guys who can look in their eyes and talk to them. Also, dont forget to style yourself. Wear clothes that are "in" and a cool hairstyle will make them think you're cool. What i do is i wear bright colored shoes and shirts, some girls find guys who have the guts to wear feminine colors cool. Be a silent type guy, be quiet when no one is talking to you and just smile at them when they look at you, the best way to smile is without showing the teeth. Show them some skills in sports or anything you're good at and also show them that you are smart. Never ever put piercings or tatoos, that will mess up your appearance. And of course, impress the right type of girl, not those kind of girl who are wasting their life. I hope i helped, but everything i said is just according to my perspective and it worked for me. |
need help
thats what i already do.
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..or concern... just so you know.... my gf was home schooled... she lives in the other side of the city.... and i met her at an anime convention x] *school is not the 'only' way to meet girls.... and from personal experience... definitely not the best way* |
School may always be the first choice, but he's right, school is not the best way to look for girls and if you already did everything we adviced, then we can't help.
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first dont lower yourself that wont give you confidence, second give your brain lot of knowledge, simple thing, if you have knowlegde you will increase the topic of conversation and they will find you as an interesting guy. Third Be nice *no matter how cool you are* just be nice to everyone.
that's all from me, gl. |
I was in your position until this last year, my friend.
The girls that I used to know in my school and so, are not worth it. They are not my type and so on, and thus I couldn't talk to with girls and I had a low confidence. However, here's some advice. Look yourself in your mirror, closely. What can you see? Is there anything you could change? Change it. Change everything you want to say. Then next to that, wait until you've left school, or grown up enough to go to bars/pubs. THAT'S the place to start and talk to girls. Act confident, always smile and when you're talking to one girl, give her your attention, however don't cling to her. Give her the feeling that you've taken an interest in her, but you could easily walk away and find another girl. There are ofcourse many other ways to pick up girls, but that is my way. I walk up to them, lower their defenses with a light joke, then I smile and slowly charm my way into their heart/mind/pant/wherever. Once you do it the first few times, it becomes second nature. First step though: Change what you want to change my friend. |
Take it from the kind of guy that DOES get the girl
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GAME DON`T FRET IT`S NOT HARD... I wish i could still do it but i can`t...but getting girls.... is not hard. IF YOU REALLY WANT HELP send me PM.... somehw PROVE you are a bloke.... just write something blokey and i will give you all you need.... i will tell you everything you need. 2 conditions. 1. don`t question the method... (its action first and then explination) 2. You gotta actually DO what i say...otherwise were just wasting our time... i will give you one step per day.... and within 2 weeks you will a bonefide Ladykiller (all be it a Padawan...but still using the force :P) also understand one thing..... I can show you a way..... but all way`s or paths lead to the same summit.... a long term partner.. but each way is different... i can show you the way that invoves "being the guy that gets the girl" if that is the path you want to walk...i can guide you... if you just want one girl....and don`t feel to have a little fun in your youth.... ...then what i know would be wasted on you but understand that you must want it.... and understand that in the future you need to be able to look back on your way with pride. because when it becomes taking candy from a baby..... and the candy is tasty your gonna end up eating ALOT of candy... and some fuckers at some point are gonna judge you etc. just because your easily into tripple digits and keep getting girls.... mostly its just they wish they could..... but it`s gonna be there.... don`t think that just because you become "that" guy that you will be loved by all.... some guy`s are haters.... but i say.... fuck `em....and then fuck there sisters :P i need some simple stats in your PM i need your age, your location, and a very brief statement about you.... this is an oppertunity.... i don`t normally do this... but about 100% of the advice you got here is incomplete and inaccurate.. tho there are good points....nothing that will make you "that" guy... the offers there |
also... understand....
once your taking candy.... when you want... and it comes time to stop.... it can be a REAL bitch.... just so you know |
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Alpha, that sounds like one of those "Want to make millions of World of Warcraft gold?" advertisements :P
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I think u may have a specific
grl in mind but if u do all u can and try ur hardest but u still don't get the grl u should look else where and if u find some1 stay! no matter if the chick changed and finds she wants u .... grr i hate grls like that! any way just try ur hardest and if i doesn't work NOT WORTH a thing!:ywave: |
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yup....
fuckit.... i got NO use for this knowledge any more :P so thought i may as well share it.... just being nice.... |
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For the OP, if you're already worried about gettin' with the ladies, you obviously have a confidence problem. There's more to the phrase "Be Yourself" besides a Hallmark copyright. If you're shy, be shy. If you're outgoing, be outgoing. If you're more in your league at parties, go to more parties. If you're more in your zone at conventions or what-have you, head to those places more. Being yourself isn't just "being true to your heart" (more Hallmark BS), it's working with what you already have. Don't be outgoing if you're not, don't be shy if you're not, and don't try flirting with girls in places you're just plainly not comfortable. You got something to offer, whatever the hell it is. Find it, roll with it, and you'll see your confidence improve. Those are you results, not how many women you can manage to woo over. Love, Peace, and All That Jazz. P.S. Please, AlphaDuck, stop raping your "." key. |
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i enjoy raping the dot key more than i enjoy raping your mother....also when the dot key is involved i don't have to worry about std's like cat aids or goat syphilis.....capish well i've had NO pm.... good luck....but you missed out there laddy-O but you know what REALLY fucks me off.... is when haters get on the case... they alway's asume.... oh youve shagged loads of girls...they must all be sluts...huh huh huh just because the only girls they can get are dirty little hood rats. or they asume...man you must just be trying SO hard.... NO...NO i don't.....and thats what kills it :P or...you must be being fake... ...never alway's keep it real I'm not a womaniser...I don't really necessarily seek it out.... i enjoy my life...or at least i did....and when it comes to hmmmm take this sexy girl home and shag her senseless.....yea i'd enjoy that...so why not? I'm not super david beckham good looking...(tho i am tall, symetrical and well toned :P ) ...i'm NOT roman abromnivitch rich... ...and thats what gets peoples back up... ...they can't see that i have anything special....yet usually i get hit on by girls..... as for where you meet girls...can be ANYWHERE... ive gotten girls everywhere... from the Job Centre to on a plane...and everywhere in between :P there is a vibe.... as a zen master once said... I understand it completely...but cannot put it into words im not trying to say its big or clever... or judge those who want to have only long term relationships...or are completely useless with women.... do what you want.... but the OP said he wanted to be "that" guy..... .... i used to be "that" guy...till i was put out to pasture :P and its fun....getting high fived by guy's you don't even know.... or having drinks bought for you by randoms because they are so amazed that youve just walked into a club/bar and pulled the fittest thing in there in a short space of time.... advice in the terms of advice.. 1. Love yourself 2. don't fuck about...you know what you want....go get it Maximum Passion + Minimum Emotion = Simple harmless fun that applies more for when you've actually got your girl :P cos if your a crap kisser don't think your taking her home there and then.... kiss her good....and she gonna go home with you and get the best sex of her life.... Peace |
Be rich, irresistibly handsome, built like a god, a fascinating conversationalist, incredibly witty and intelligent, and above all, modest.
That's how I do it. |
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-Listen to her -Have good hygeine -Smile at her -Work out |
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I bet it works ;) |
-dress well
-Be confident -Flatter her -Be a gentleman -Be yourself -Don't just sit there and not say anything. |
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Thinking more on it though, I realized that a lot of guys that have these sort of problems think way too much about getting with women to the point where they forget the point. While there's not a single woman out there that doesn't wish she wasn't swept off her feet at any given moment, there are plenty out there who will start making preconceived judgements about you if they can tell (and they will) that you're trying to get with them. The hottest woman at a bar knows what she's got, and she's flaunting it so much that every guy in the place wants her; she knows all that, so any guy that makes an obvious attempt at it will, more than likely, get shot down (unless this guy is the first coming of God as far as looks are concerned). The solution to this is many; my own personal one is to not give a damn that she's the finest thing to grace the area I'm currently in. Girls are clinically insane enough to go crazy with curiosity as to why a guy isn't drooling over her when every one else is. Of course, the fine line you walk is that she may think your gay. Show interest, but not too much, and don't overthink it. Meh. |
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Umm...What kind of Girl are you looking for?:onismile:
also I think you need to be yourself that's the best thing you can do... :marusmile: |
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having gone out with some hypothetical-15/10 women... the most amazing thing i found is that they actually find it REALLY hard to get blokes... i first learnt this from what i can only describe as a walking, talking, barbie doll (with two degrees).... going on dates with her overinflated my EGO SO much it hurt... you wern't just out with the fittest girl in the bar...but EASILY the fittest woman within a 5 mile radius...and in London that is saying something... but she found it REALLY hard to get guy's... next time your in a pub/bar...and you see that UBER fit woman....keep a subtle eye on her...and see how many guy's actually go to chat her up.....probably none...until they get FAAAR to drunk that is...and then come across as idiots... i tend to hang around with "the beautifull people"....and you would be suprised....pretty girls like REALLY stunning girls...get hit on less than there "girl next door" but dolled up nice counterparts its a funny world so next time you see one...dont wait for dutch courage...just go...say "hi" and be yourself happy hunting edit: funny but true.....i'm not a "fashionable" guy...as long as i'm not scoring minus points...im happy with a flat 0 on style....and we went to all of these fancy bars and stuff....and being the worst dressed guy...with the fittest woman...is quite funny....the looks you get from these pre-maddona...perfume wearing, cashmire sweater toting, hoity-toity wannabee's...is very funny.... |
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Maybe you should take your own advice? |
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