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Melis 09-28-2008 03:17 PM

What would you do?
 
Would you change for your boy/girlfriend?

Example:

I always wear highheels pumps etc. My ex once said to me; ''I dont want you to wear highheels, pumps. why do you wear such slutty shoes. You look like a ho..''

Well.. lets say he did not say the last part..
But I would never stop wearing those things.. just because he dont like it..

And yeah.. the relationship was over when he said that i look like a ho..just so you know:P

How about you? How would you react? Would you consider to change? Or not?


(and sorry for the bad english:P)

Uriko 09-28-2008 03:42 PM

i wouldn't change anything for a boyfriend if he knows it's something i enjoy & it doesn't cause harm to anyone. for example, wearing high heels. (i don't wear them, but let's just say i do) if he thinks i look like a slut in them & that i really really like heels, then i'm going to still wear the heels & i'm going to dump him. 'cause not all guys think that about high heels. he just sucked.

now, if there was something really wrong about me, like maybe the fact that i'm a drama queen & it causes problems & a lot of arguments, then..yeah, i'm going to try to change that for him. but only if i think he's worth changing for. ^_^'

Salvanas 09-28-2008 08:22 PM

A couple are supposed to be understanding to anything that their other half likes, even if they are annoyed by it. Unless it's life ruining, or relationship ruining, I would not ask my GF, nor will I change anything I wear/do because of that.

james1254 09-28-2008 08:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Melis (Post 595959)
Would you change for your boy/girlfriend?

Example:

I always wear highheels pumps etc. My ex once said to me; ''I dont want you to wear highheels, pumps. why do you wear such slutty shoes. You look like a ho..''

Well.. lets say he did not say the last part..
But I would never stop wearing those things.. just because he dont like it..

And yeah.. the relationship was over when he said that i look like a ho..just so you know:P

How about you? How would you react? Would you consider to change? Or not?


(and sorry for the bad english:P)

was he shorter than you when you are wearing heels? :P
No you shouldn't change for other people unless its something bad for you as well.

CarleyGee 09-28-2008 08:47 PM

I wouldn't change myself, it's too bad for him.

Aniki 09-28-2008 09:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CarleyGee (Post 596461)
I wouldn't change myself, it's too bad for him.

Hell, if I were your bf I definetly wouldn't want you to change anything. Only an idiot would want that.

CarleyGee 09-28-2008 09:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aniki (Post 596500)
Hell, if I were your bf I definetly wouldn't want you to change anything. Only an idiot would want that.

Ha. If that's a compliment, then thank you. ^_^

Melis 09-28-2008 09:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by james1254 (Post 596422)
was he shorter than you when you are wearing heels? :P
No you shouldn't change for other people unless its something bad for you as well.

Hahaha lol..
We had the same height when i wore my highheels..:P

xYinniex 09-28-2008 09:51 PM

he can go die. Seriously. he doesn have the right to say what you should wear and what you shouldn't.
I would have slapped him and then dumped him and humiliated him in front of his friends.

But then again, im a evil bitch. so....=D

CarleyGee 09-28-2008 10:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xYinniex (Post 596534)
he can go die. Seriously. he doesn have the right to say what you should wear and what you shouldn't.
I would have slapped him and then dumped him and humiliated him in front of his friends.

But then again, im a evil bitch. so....=D

Hahahahahaha.
Seriously. I'm sure we would want to change something bout them too.
But you're supposed to like them for who they are, and if they don't like
that . . . then whatever.


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