Well I like Japanese Music and Anime . . . a lot of girl see me like im weird from another planet wich watch anime is for kids >_> IDK sometimes you have to accept how they are because if you get a girl friend you will not change her, you knew her like that way so, they can't change you

you seriously lack confidence. relations shouldnt be about one part doing everything for the other, get a girl whos willing to meet you halfway, even if it takes time...

At the moment I am single and despite my ex's attempts to rekindle the flame I think I'll just relax for now.:D

She clearly didn't get low enough to melt the candle and get covered by the wax.

lol Don't tell her that she might try it!

Hm, I'm not single at the moment but I can name almost any reason why I've had trouble in finding relationships.

The first one being the current relationship I'm in, it's been going on and off for seven years. We'd break up for long periods of time and it became a habit of waiting for when would decide to get back together (the longest was a year I believe.) But because I got stuck in that rut I missed out on some nice people, and plus I'm currently lost on what to do with our relationship. Like is it heading anywhere? Plus, at the moment, we live six hours apart.

Another common reason is because I'm fat. It's something I've always been pretty blunt about, really and I've tired to work my way down the weight pole. I work out three times a week but I never seem to shed anything. Oh well.

Then I'm shy, so it's hard to build simple relationships, let alone complex ones.

=D And...I'm a total nerd for literature, history, Japan, and anime.

I'm single but I want to be. Considering I leave for Japan in a month for a year having a girlfriend at home would just...take away from the experience for me. You know what I'm saying? It would make me feel guilty.

I've been struggling to fix my left curved leg which is a result of a bad operation here in my country... and it's been 6 years. Finally going abroad to some great surgeons to finally fix it for good.

Does this count as a reason preventing me? I have been more interested to fix my body rather than looking for a girlfriend... I feel a lot better if I know my body is normal just as everyone... I'm fit, but I just have this problem.

I know a lot of single people "really" want to hook up but take my advice, don't rush it, you'll come out a lot better if you find someone who is good for you instead of taking what's in front of you. I have a lot of friends who are always complaining about their relationship (mostly girls) because they rushed into something because they just had to have it. that won't do...:vsign:

having a boyfriend is to much work! lol