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cridgit001 12-25-2008 06:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Saffron (Post 649434)
England :)

So if guys don't even take girls out for drinks in England, then what else do you do? Or are you just referring to what guys pay for?

AestheteHistory 12-25-2008 08:04 AM

Dry Pickings
 
There isn't anyone who catches my eye or my mind, yeah sure guys come up and put some moves on you but I'm not into that kinda thing. I want to be able to talk with some one about important things not little crap, I want some one who can have fun not be afraid of me being a complete un-cool freak in the peoples eye (I don't mean in a anime otaku kind of way) and most of all I want to trust them. And me trusting someone is a rarity in itself so the reason is that I am picky about too many things to even try to bother looking right now and besides I am at that age where my future is here and now no time for games.

Saffron 12-25-2008 11:42 AM

I have been out of the dating scene for a long time so I can only tell you what I have seen and what I have experienced. If a girl has her own place, the guys here just want to use her. Personally I don't think it is fair on the guy to have to spend a lot of money on a girl unless he really wants to. At the same time a guy shouldn't use a girl nor should a girl use a guy. I don't know what else they do anymore. It used to be that a decent guy would take a girl out to the cinema or if he didn't have much money would take a nice walk somewhere. I think having a nice date talking and having a nice time is more important and means much more than how much a guy spends.

kyo_9 12-25-2008 02:57 PM

it is not my priority now to attract girls..

Aota 12-25-2008 05:19 PM

Her boyfriend... *cough*

peterv20 12-25-2008 08:39 PM

case in point,i just had a coffee date that cost about 150 u.s.dollars...and i didn't get anything!!!!!!!!this drives my female friends crazy..they yell at me "what makes you think you have to get something!!!" i dunno....:mtongue:

Saffron 12-25-2008 08:48 PM

That is a lot of money for a coffee date. How did it cost so much?

animelover32 12-25-2008 08:49 PM

Nothing really, right now I'm more concentrated on getting through college. There is a guy I like, we're friends right now, and he lives in Oregon, I'm in Illinois so it's kind of hard to be in a relationship when we're so far away from each other.

peterv20 01-15-2009 05:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Saffron (Post 651200)
That is a lot of money for a coffee date. How did it cost so much?

yeah it starts out with coffee.then lunch,a movie,drinks,you know.then i heard that she had another date later.go figure.:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

SatoshiBM 01-16-2009 01:42 AM

what prevents me from gettin a relationship? The bullshit that comes along with it.


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