Indeed, that's definitely true. It's a shame people feel such pressure to not be a virgin, and it's really not healthy for it to be seen as a bad thing when it's not at all.

i don't mean to troll....

but i dont see how being a virgin makes you PURE

Definately. Too many people these days have no sense of good judgement with these things. What's so wrong with being a virgin? To them it makes you SUCH a big loser. It's a reason why I'm anti-social now...At least to those idiots.

I mean sexually pure in a physical way. Sure, your mind can be XXX rated and all that, but yeah, physically pure. Doesn't have to be all the way pure, with sicknesses and all, but you see what I'm getting at with this?

i think it should be over 18. As people are mature enough to decide to have sex, also they have a better knowledge about sex.

but by saying that by having sex you are making yourself "impure"....is that not implying that sex is somehow a bad thing...or that it in some way harms or taints your body...

physically speaking....whats the difference between a virgin and a non-virgin?

for a boy....nothing

and a girl has a hymen...but these are often brocken before sex anyway...

i REALLY don't like this phrasing of "PURE"...

i think keeping it real and being true to yourself makes you pure...

its in the heart...not the loins

I'm not saying that having sex makes you impure. I was saying that them going around and doing it without a care was a stupid move. Did you see me use the word "Impure"?

Sex isn't a bad thing. It's the promiscuous dumbasses that are the true threats.

And hymens being broken before sex....Didn't know that part.

I agree with you, being true to youself and being yourself in general is what is pure...But if doing stupid shit is keeping it real (nothing against you, just using an examplt), and if your true self if something bad, then sure, it can be pure. I just won't agree with it.

Ugh. Wrong choice of words then. None of us are perfect.

Sweet another topic that will never end because it will only be a clash of semantics and posters trying to express their opinion of how the world works, and how it should behave by shoving it down each others throats in a desperate plea that someone else will cave and go "by damn you're right!"

In case anyone hasn't noticed this "issue" isn't something that any one person, or even collective of minds should be allowed to decide because every person is different. What happens between two people will happen whether or not the masses think it's "appropriate" (god so help me if one of you try and take that as me endorsing pedophilia). If those two people aren't really "ready" then they just taught each other a life lesson that will stay with them forever.

the reason why i have a problem with the word "pure"

and its in NO way a dig at you DSX...

its just that this word is used firt by the clergy (priests)...and then by somewhat right-wing people...

I think we should all be happy..... if sleeping with people makes you happy then go for it!

i know i personally took it a BIT far....but that was the person that i was...my girlfriend knows how many people i slept with...she's not thrilled by it..naturally :P...

however i did so for my own reasons.....
and that was simply because it felt good...it was fun...and it gained me the respect of my peers....

fuck you mite judge me...or call me a man whore....

but i was known in my time simply as "the Legend"
i managed to perfect womanising to an art....
and while most of those skills are of NO use to me whatsoever now....

there are several communication skills i have...that are invaluable...
i can get things done...i can diffuse any situation....etc. etc.

i think to call someone a dumbass just for having alot of sexual partners is not very fair...

after all it takes a fair amount of intelect...sure you can sleep with slappers...anyone can do that..its easy...

but i assure you the 3 virgins ive had...were not slappers...

and just cos you go for quantity...doesnt mean you lose quality..infact the quality goes up!

....

but having said that there are younglings that do these things for the wrong reasons.....and to be fair i did most of my shagging once i moved out of my parents house at 18....

i knew one girl in school who slept around...and that was because she didn't feel loved...and being physical with someone and having all that attention on her made her feel loved (see told you i had communication skills :P)

some have sex due to peer pressure...they don't want to be called fridgid...or want acceptance from a group.....

however i maintain that sex is healthy...and its fun....and its FREE...

like the old skool two step song said

"don't do druuuuuuuuuuugs....
Just have SEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEX"

Peace

Yep, It's so much fun!

You say "fuck you" if we judge, but in that quote I see potential hypocrisy. So you got the respect of your peers...Is that what you wanted, or one of the things you wanted?

Indeed it does, but sometimes what other people have to say may be incorrect, so it's a potential wild card. Could go either way.

And yeah, I had a misread on what he meant...

In this kind of conversation i don't think someone can be "correct" or "incorrect", it's all a matter of opinion

That's true.

yea no offence was intended...there was a missing comma.

no I did not do what i dd to gain the respect of my peers...though it was a side effect.


simply put...

i was.... a Predatory Male.....

you see the way a cat looks at a moving mouse.....

its something you just have....an instinct.......

you efforlessly become the Alpha in any given situation.....

you see a peice of flesh...and thats what you see it for...flesh....

you look it up and down.....then you think about..."tasting" it........

an then you go about making that happen....

safe in the knowledge that your claws are sharp....your feet are padded....your eyes are keen......

and th poor little mouse doesnt have a fucking clue what is about to happen.

its almost like a hunger....

because once you reach a point...there is no if....there is no maybe...

if you want...you get....there is no effort...there is no try....

just....mouse moves....cat pounces....

its natural...its instinct.....

i dont say its big...i dont say its shallow.....

but i will say its fun :P

but each to thier own i say...regarding the OP that is

should have sex when your most able =3
when the guy's hormones are the most raging
and when the girls are best able to recover from a pregnancy ^_^

oh and also while the girl's vaginal fluids are still alkaline >.>''
sperms doesn't do well with low pH levels >.>''

incidentally, woman tend to become more acidic with age....
i think after 18-20 or something like that....


well you only live once =3
haha
:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

well they're 'more' alkaline when they're younger x]

haha... and i know what you mean
>.<'''

funny you should say that last part....
>.>'''
he he he he....
>.<'

tell me sal xD
have you ever done anal before?
:D

Hey, at least you've never had a guy who asked you for sex...And offered a fuckin' dollar for it for Christ's sakes...

a WHOLE dollar!!

WOW...classy guy!

as far as fingers and butts go...i got a saying

"you can play on the mountains...you can play in the valley...you can even play AROUND the cave....but if you go in the cave...the big bad brown bear is gonna come out and say hello :P"


by the way...you havnt had a BJ till youve had a chick give some attention to your gouch...thats fuckin havin it..

he he he live once!

but live fully

Wow, this thread has taken a turn for the worse LMAO xD

Which is why I won't do much anal if I ever get laid.

And yeah, what a classy bastard isn't he? Offering a single dollar for it...It's already worthless. I wouldn't do another guy even if he offered a million+.

but still planning on SOME anal eh? :p

you dirty boy!....and you talk to your mother with that tongue!

Hey, you've got it worse than I do, Mr. Bomb-Shag-Stic.