i know what you mean man....its either you do it or not...you need to choose.

How about not being so fast, stay around more with her, be friends, go be more close to her and confess when you think she knows enough of you.

If she already does, go ahead...

Uh, I don't know I mean everyone I've been with is like.. once they are friend material, that's it, no chance, lol. When it's been boyfriends I know that we might end up that way so it's more of a bf/gf thing before rather than a friend thing.

Bugger.

Just kiddin' Sal :p

That's exactly what I've been thinking most of the time.. Still it feels like a slap in the face when someone else says it, because this reduces my chances even more..

I think I'll confess to her soon.. It's either that or feel like this for a few months.. Even if she rejects me, I'll at least know how she feels about me..

But I know, that when I'm alone with her, the chance I'd have the guts to confess, are close to 0%.. sigh.

If shes as much of a friend as you say she is, she will still like you even if you confess and she doesnt feel the same. Stop being a wuss and get on with it.

ah, but dude, people are fickle! if hanging round me hasnt taught you that Ash lol. i completely see your point, ive been in this situation a few times, its never really worked out for me, but you sorta really have to decide whats best for you. If theres the slight possibility of it ruining your friendship, then really think long and hard about it before acting. Ultimately, there are always other girls out there, as people keep pointing out to me lol.

I don't care if she'll still like me afterwords, I think she will. It's just I'm to scared to get rejected.

then you shall be sitting on the fence forever..