What a woman wants
 

Hello.

I've done some observation lately. I've interacted with women of different age groups and have come to the conclusion that there's some necessities in a woman that never change.

Time changes everything, but for a fantasy in a woman the following do not change:

- Playfulness: Every woman, not matter what age they are have an inner child that never dies. Obviously some women lose touch with it due to stress and other issues, but in truth it is ever-living. It is true that a woman during her peak, age of around 30 will be much more playful, adventurous and all that jazz.

- Romance: Different women like different means of romance, but as you grow older it all boils down to a good memory that cannot be forgotten. That romance comes from the dedication that a man puts into the woman. Dedication and honesty. You know, speak words from his heart, wholeheartedly not some half witty bull to get some wet cookie. A material gift or an event must have a really strong meaning. Taking a girl to dinner, making her laugh without your full attention will never be truly romantic. Might be romantic in a sense, but not powerful. Hmm, let's take an event where you take out your girl for a dinner and you do something silly that puts her on the spot, like, you know, make an announcement to the restaurant that you love her. You might feel the need to blush but that event will last a life time.

- Muscles/Packs: Obviously women are not shallow, it is why we have such a diversity in this world. Yet, it still does not change the fact that a Mean, Lean, Sex machine of a man with a tense body will make her happier. Makes you more self confident as well.

I reckon most girls in this community will say no to this 'theory' of mine, but in due time the concept will fall into place.

Those values will never die. A woman could be in her 60, act playful and joke around. :)

Anyway, what do the girls think.

Bare in mind the topic of this thread. In no way, shape or form does it say women are simple minded. It simply points what would make a woman smile in some way or form throughout time.

Good stuff, guy. Just the tip of the iceberg, but people can keep adding on.

Not every woman likes the same body type though. I've seen some of the prettiest girls going with big bears of men, I guess for the softness factor. I think everyone likes a fit body, but no women like bodybuilders :D

Packs and muscles = fit.
Excessive muscle is ugly.

Self respect. but not arrogance.

Respect for others.

;)

But packs are so easy. I have packs and I've never actually stopped to work out my abdominal muscles in my life for that purpose (I was forced sit-ups in P.E. classes years ago, big deal). They come naturally with my thin frame ;]

What are "packs"?

but if hes got a butt ugly face. >.>
No way.

Your breakup will just be worse,
her: you said you loved me.
Him:did i? I only did it for the impression.

ONE WORD: ALZHEIMERS. XD

AWESOME!! XD

I haven't got much advice other than treat a girl the way she really deserves to be treated. And I find myself often spoiling them. >>

I just try to make sure they're feeling relaxed.

Romance and a healthy body are obvious.

Playfullness? Not sure about that one... some sort of sense of humour sure... but playfulness is something that some women find unattractive believe me.

Not really, if a woman is not stressed and as a good upbringing she will always have an inner child. =]

I am not talking about a guy being childish.

You know, taking her to the batting cages or go-karts instead of dinner and a movie. Playing video or board games and both of you getting way too into it. It doesn't always have to be roses and champagne

Eww no I hate muscles! I hate manly manness xD Haha~ Playfulness.. erm,, not so sure. Playfulness can = creepyness when executed incorrectly, haha. Sense of humour though yes.

i hate pecs.

pair of firm moobies.

Yay! *dances*

Well MissMisa what if we have Muscles?Because we like to look better and use them for lots of lifting.

@Uriko that was funny but why the hell dont you all like em.Plus that screwed me over.

toned pecs are fine but once they're developed into domes, then that's just gross.

i'm fine with lean men, but when they're overly muscular (like the wieght lifters that model for nutrition stores) it's blecch.

plus, i like hugs. muscular men aren't as huggable as guys with a little fat in them.

based on my experience
 

what woman wants is just someone that they can be comfortable with, and can make them laugh easily.

(girls correct me if im wrong! im learning :) )

I'll have to disagree with that one, it's nice to look at but for me that's it just nice to look at. the other ones you're right although I'm not 30 but I'm guessing for many women its where they've reached the point where they've finally accepted themselves and say why not let it all hang out.

I understand what you're getting at.. I had a more narrow definition of playfulness

But that sort of thing goes without saying.

Women like fun-loving, healthy men who are romantic once in a while... kinda obvious.

hmmm, not much emphasis has been put on honesty! Personally, I find honesty to be the most important thing a woman looks for!

oh, and I forgot, Priorities! A woman likes a man that has the right priorities! i.e. the woman is TOP priority! lol

Oh let me play!!!

A woman likes a man with... um... no head lice! In fact hygiene is important!

A man that breathes is a must too!

If it's a nice guy with muscles then I don't care if he has them or not. But as a personal preference I don't like them. I want hugs that are soft and plushie not all hard and macho! haha!

Wow... you relate head lice and breathing to being honest and having priorities! I feel sorry for the women you date!

MissMisa... I think it's the same for a lot of guys... I don't like skinny girls because their hugs are just... uncomfortable... I like a bit of meat! :)

Fluffy hugs yay! me and a friend call one of our friends fluffy cus he's all fluffy when you hug him XD I could really care less if they have muscles or not...
strange...I had this same talk yesterday at chilli's

This is not true. I knew an old guy who was ugly, fat, bald, and wasn't rich who had beautiful women chasing him. Why? CONFIDENCE. He acted confident and treated the women like he didn't need them. This attracted them. Once a woman is attracted, logic goes out the window.
I agree with the OP on playfulness and romance. Just do the unexpected and women love that.;)

Yeah because all women are the same and we all love exactly the same type of guy and the same type of things :rolleyes:

No one knows what women want.. And if you do, your probably wrong. But thats what makes everything so exciting!

@Uriko i understand that not body builders.Steroids and excessive amounts is sickening .But tone up is better.When you do a lot of wood work and other crap.

@MissMisa. I see what you are talking about But it is rare to hear that.Most of the ones i have talked like muscle.But i have had a lot female friends who have slept on my stomach and they say its soft like a pellow.

@Shadow are you saying once you do figure women out .They change constantly?

Meh, every girl I know prefers men without muscles, but maybe we are just a set of weirdos :D

I believe honesty is one of the important traits women look for.

What a woman wants?

I have no idea but I believe there's a Nobel prize reserved for the person who can answer that.

What ALL women want? Globally? 99,9 percent? Something that is 5 inch long, 3 inch wide. It can be two things.

@MissMisa I understand you now .It is any womens choice of fat or lean guy.

But for us guys its either the curvy gals or the ones with meat and dont have bones showing.

But on either sides trust is important.Not like one nighters or players just wrong.But i find treatin women bad as arses that should be hangin by a rope :vsign:

@Thunda ya goofy S.O.B..... Cuz dont make me Box ya ears off with a hook

Thanks, Salvanas. For a moment I thought they were talking about "pecs" or "pectoral muscles", but this makes MUCH more sense.

Are you telling me that if your man had the option to have a better body you'd say no? a better body as in his own body getting stiffer, stronger and slender. Not someone else body.

Everyone is replying but completely missing the point of this thread. I, seriously no, reply well and read slow otherwise I will come down on you all like doomsday.

A portable purse?

I believe this thread can be answered in two words, Chuck Norris.

Bureda-san! You are so right! I would know because I'm a girl.....but good observations!

a nice looking face wouldn't hurt either. =D

But like i said: playful 60 year old woman=alzheimars [YES, IM GOING TO MILK THIS JOKE =P]