2 a degree at 1st glance u wud either be attracted to someone or not, here is where personality plays a bigger role, cos its no use you looking extremely gorgeous but cant hold a conversation or ur head cant fit in the door way lol. I think ppl today remember u not so much by the way u look, but rather ur personality.

Age stomps beauty dead...Personality means more to people. Women look for a man that will give them security. That is a big thing I see as the first things women are looking for. We want to feel safe in our environment.

That's a good point. When I notice someone for their looks, it's not necessarily on a scale of attractiveness. It's their general appearance - the image they are trying to project and how it seems to fit them.

Sometimes you will discover once you meet them that the image was a complete misdirection, but not often.

And when someone approaches me, I can often tell just how observant they were by the first impression they seem to have of me.

That's true isn't it? Personality endures and sees couples through. I agree there has to be a certain attraction to begin with but if there's no personality and only looks...

I've heard this many times before and I agree. Women want safety and security and a guy who give that. There may be some exceptions and I can't speak on behalf of women (not being one) but it does seem that way to me.

I guess we forget another important factor? money? hahahaha.. look, personality or rich?

Some ppl choose to go with the rich even if he/she is ugly, the personality is ugly... but he/she is definitely rich.

But if compared with personality or look. I definitely judge by the personality. A handsome guy can make me go awe, but not all handsome can turn me on. Anyway, a good looking person with a poor personality or has an evil heart is definitely not a beautiful person. =)

i want looks AND personality =p maybe im just picky

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Same. It doesn't make sense why you should have to choose. It's like saying you can be thrown up on then have a cake,or you can go to a party and it's a bad party,it's just a random,bizarre choice.

Lets put it this way.
I could not date even britney spears (Hot and rich) If she acted like one of those girls from that jersey shore show or a thuggish rapper.

But I have a standard also. I'm a little picky when it comes to looks. X_x,
I cant help it.