Ask the girls
 

Hi guys i found this idea on another forum and it worked really well there, its basically for all the guys to ask the girls any questions/ queries they have about women, relationships etc that they’ve always wanted to know - since alot say that they dont know what women want, here’s a chance to ask them...
Btw I think one of the guys should start one for the girls to ask the guys questions :)
Peace!

what do mean by this girl

what do u mean what do i mean?

i dont know i was asking you that

huh? i dont understand your question what are u so confused about?

you confuesed me with what you said and wrught faster please

im doing some work on the side so i cant reply faster,

the thread is for guys to be able to ask questions to girls about stuff like 'what women look for in men' etc etc, any outstanding questions they may have about the way women think -

ok then i got one what do girls want from guys except money and sex

lol hmmmm let me think love!!!??

clothes and a car :D and a really pretty ring.

sry just had to say V___V

and maybe a nice handbag aswell (but one thats totally filled with love) ;)

do girls perfere guys with long or short hair better?like metal band hair long .

hmm i like men with short hair, the long hair just feels kinda unhygenic on a man esp if hes a rocker! GOD knows whats hiding there! but even if its clean, i think leave the long hair to the women

btw (i think the majority of women like short hair but the ones who like long hair will specifically chase guys with that - but ive never really met anyone like that, i think those girls are few and far between)

what the girls think about tall guys?

i love tall guys it think all women do, (its being with the short guys that can be bothersome sometimes because u need to make allowance that if you ware heels you dont wanna look taller then him) but yeah tall guys rock, esp since im not that short myself (im about 5'11 in heels)

hahha interesting answer! Women really like shoes !

Interesting thread, there will be some general answers, but since everyone wants something different, I am going to bet that at the end you will find that girls want everything, and guys also want everything....

for sure!! esp high heels, theres nothing thats more sexy then a woman in high heels

What is love?

its an abstract noun it means different things to different people

Baby don't hurt me...

I generally find that each girls reacts differently when the full moon is up,

why do some girls love badboys so much, is it the whole "he'd change for me" thing or is it like a "only I could understand him" thing or something else, probaly the only thing that baffles me about girls to be completely honest

I was staying at a friends girlfriends flat for like 2 days and I met some of her room mates, then when I went to a party later on in that week one of them came up to me and actually said I was really attractive BUT I was too nice, didnt really care what she thought as I wasnt intrested in her but the "but" in the sentence really got on my nerves...as if being nice was somehow bad?

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a saint or anything but I'm deffinitly not considered a badboy

honestly as somone who loves bad boys im not so sure why i do either?
i think its just the fact of being with someone whose hard to get, hard to keep and hard to love. if a guy is nice to me chances are i wont notice him as much, its just the hype that surrounds being with a 'bad boy', society plays them off as being cool so girls find them cool aswell. in addition to that its just their 'i dont give a damn' attitude that makes em so much more 'manly' or whatever you wanna call it. but other then that their just a risk and girls like a bit a risk and a bit of a challenge, thats how i see it anway

but i must point out that in the long run the nice guys win, coz you dont wanna spend the rest of your life with someone who doesnt really care about u all that much and who doesnt help around the house or cant pay the bills coz hes got a lousy job and no education

how about a man who is interesting will listen-- talk-------not be conceited.

Not too macho.

personally i like that alot, sometimes some peoples personalities are soo endearing that you tend to overlook alot of other things - and like them for who they are, i think after uv been through a couple of 'bad boy' experiences u learn that they are like the shiney toy in the shop window, you want it badly till u get it, then the novelty faids after a while, its not something that will last you and ino that alot of men like can never be tied down until there in their late 40 or something and they cant rely on their good looks/ charm anymore so they think ok lets get married now,
but every girl wants a man who will listen to her, take care of her and love her like shes the only women that matters (sounds corney ino) but i think every girl wants a man like that in the long run! as i like to call it - a stayer not a player :)

Why do you think God create Woman in this world?

To stop man from blowing up the world thousands years before now.

hmm, first of all I want to thank you for starting this thread because I am sure there are many guys out there who are wondering many things about women, well, I cant say I'm that curious about women but I always wondered how a woman feels when she is inlove with a man, thats what I want to know, not sure if this is the right question though ^^''

its cool, im glad u approve, i just thought we shud be allowed more of an insight into the mind of the opposite sex, btw guys you shud take this as a chance to make a 'ask the guys' thread ;)

and to try and answer ur question, which is a tough and very broad one may i add :)
- for me i feel secure, stable, happy, warm and fuzzy and like the world just feels right - and like no matter how much stuff is going on around u, u can weather the storm coz ur with the person u wanna be with. i dont know how else to put it other then u feel 'complete'

wow i never knew i could be so corney (yuk) :)

so they could balance out mans ignorance and self destructive nature - and so people could pro-create - even though it was eve who took the apple and not adam :confused: but yeh men and women balance eachother out - and i dont think the world would function if one wasnt there

*chucklez lightly* actually your answer was pretty satisfying, and I can say thats what a man exactly feels when he is inlove, thanks for the answer eh.. :)

no problem :) im suprised men feel the same way - cool

lol why surprised eh? not all the men are emotionless. :P

i dont know, coz ive never really asked a man how he feels and becoz alot of men dont express it - and maybe coz ive seen alot of men who are super arrogant and emotionless - all the good looking ones always are

women like men that are taller than herself :D

And if we are smaller xD?
I'm only 1m73... (yeah sorry I don't know what is in Imperial)

theres nothing wrong with a short man, but wed have to wear flats all the time :( - but the majority of girls are alot shorter then 1.73m (5'6) so u shudnt have a problem ;)

Well...
 

This is a question i just had to ask... if a guy likes someone but that person they like is taller and dont like guys smaller then her what should he do? Im asking out of hope to somehow help my friend in the situation hes in x-x.

ok so your friend likes a girl whose taller then him and that girl doesnt like short guys?

hmmm i think if he already doesnt then he should get to know her first, you dont wanna go and ask her out straight away, if he does know her and she doesnt like shorter guys then i wouldnt ask her out, you dont wanna ruin the friendship - but i would try somehow to ask her in general conversation if she would ever consider a guy shorter than her and if she says yes then problem solved if she says no then forget her and move on, there plenty of other girls out there

hope it helps

Hm..I'll absolutely tell my friend about that thanks for the help. Oh another question but this is honesty for me :P!

In my Sophmore year of highschool at the moment. Starting the very first day I ever went to highschool I changed completely cause of my ex now I actually consider acting stupid or doing stupid stuff to make ppl laugh or before i didnt cause i consider it dumb to act stupid or do something to make myself look stupid but the girls now im doing it to make them smile,laugh or cheer up when they sad, I also now Im the one starting the conversation and always make sure the girl im talking with is never bored,laughing and happy and always bring a conversation up if i think shes bored,and lastly,my shyness is gone now so i can easily talk to girls now and not be shy or be all akward when around them but, because of this change im not considered shy,quiet,emo or w/e but now weird or strange but very caring and funny :P! But even so non of the girls I known want to go farther above then the friendzone which is really saddening for me T^T

(NOW FOR THE QUESTION! sorry for caps...) Can you explain to me what exactly might be the reason no one would want to go above the friendzone or would want to consider that o.o? All my friends i been with them for a year except a few but still, and they know me very well same for me knowing them,I went through good and bad times with them and always somehow got them to cheer up or help them during the bad...(which why they consider me caring xP)..They dont really mind if it went farther then friendzone nor would it cause a problem with friendship(might make it akward but somehow it'll still be the same) but in the end none want too.(I also have a job so I have a upperhand then other guys I know and they also dont like any guy right now that i know of.) As for the reason I dont know which is actully exactly what i want to find out from a fellow person of the opposite gender.