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05-30-2007, 08:06 PM

[/quote]If you want to marry a Japanese guy *because* he`s Japanese, then I`d suggest you do some more thinking. I didn`t marry my husband because he`s Japanese. I married him because I fell in love with him - and he just happened to be Japanese. I am quite strongly against marrying because of some specific trait (be it race, nationality, etc). Marry for love, not because it would be cool to be married to someone Japanese.

As for a family being strict - I think that really all does depend on the family. I think families are often more cautious than anything. It seems more international marriages end in disaster than not. (Largely because it`s pretty common to marry because it`s "international" and not for true love.) It`s only natural that a family would want their child to avoid that sort of problem later on.



Feel free to ask away.[/quote]


thanks for the help ^^
and no i dont want to marry a Japanese just because
hes Japanese, i believe in love and in finding my Prince
Charming ^.^ so i dont care if hes Mexican, Asian , European,
or an alien

So my first step would be to make some connection with people
that live in Japan, I'll start the search .
I would love to live there, and might do it through school but
first i need to find my major ^^;; .


I guess the first thing i'll do it just take a trip to Japan
i could always make friends on my trip.

Oh i have a good question if you dont mind
answering it ....How did you meet your Husband ?
i wanna hear the love story , im a sucker for romance
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